Cheating on a loved one is a deep psychological trauma. At the initial stage of the relationship, it seems that the beloved will never change, but no one is safe from this. How to behave correctly if you want to maintain a relationship and are ready to forgive your loved one, but not lose your own dignity.
Your loved one cheated on you. You already know for sure that it happened. Your first reaction is resentment. You are ready to break off the relationship immediately, it seems that it is already impossible to forgive the traitor. True, after a while you begin to think more reasonably, and now you no longer want to part with your beloved. How to snatch him from the grasping hands of your rival? An important stage is the collection of the necessary information about the homeless woman. Try to find out everything about her. The more compromising material, the higher the chance to win back your man.
Show wisdom and try to objectively evaluate your opponent. Do not lie to yourself and convince yourself that although she is ten years younger than you, she looks worse. Reason sensibly.
Now is the time to evaluate her intellectual abilities. If she is very stupid, then this can play into your hands, but on condition that your lover prefers educated and erudite women with whom there is something to talk about. Again, if your opponent is smarter than your beloved, then next to her he will not stay long either.
Try to find out what your opponent is afraid of. You can play on her weaknesses.
If you find out about the betrayal of your loved one, then try not to roll up violent scenes. It is very difficult, but impulsiveness in this matter can turn against you. In a fit of anger, you can say so much too much and move away from your beloved so much that it will be impossible to return the old relationship. Here it is important to understand what your loved one wanted to find in a relationship on the side. Perhaps he simply succumbed to a momentary weakness and cheated on you by an absurd accident. Do not do stupid things, do not push him into the arms of your rival with your rash actions.
Collect dirt on the homeless woman. Find out as much as possible about her love life. If you set yourself a goal, then in the age of the Internet it is quite easy to do this. Now you can unobtrusively tell your loved one about the one with whom he is deceiving you. However, here it is also important not to overdo it and in no case start to compose fables about the rival. It is enough just to plant in his soul a doubt about the sincerity of his new passion. Often this is already enough to spoil his romance on the side.
To return a loved one and get rid of a rival, you need to be patient and cool. Find out about her financial situation. If your loved one contains it, then it will be very easy for you to cut off cash flows. Believe me, this is a very effective means of dealing with homeless people. As a rule, if material assistance stops, then such women look for other sources of additional income.
Find out about her hobbies. By the way, it is very dangerous if your loved one and your rival agree on the basis of common interests, be it work or hobby. Think maybe it's time to become more interested in the affairs of your beloved man and take part in his life.
You need to find out when your opponent's birthday. On this day, do your best to keep your loved one at home. You can even pretend to be sick to upset the event. Believe me, if your man can't get out to her on her birthday, this will cause serious damage to their relationship. The rival will surely arrange a scandal for him.
What should not be done in any case if your loved one is cheating
If you have common children, then do not drag them into your showdown. Do not blackmail the traitor with children. By such actions, you will only arouse disgust and anger in him, and you should feel sorry for the children and not cripple their fragile psyche.
Don't call your loved one's mistress. This is the main mistake. You think that after talking with you, she will take and move to another city or immediately leave your husband. On the contrary, she will tell your man that you are terrorizing her. In addition, she can still embellish the situation so that you look like a fury, and she is an innocent sheep. Believe me, your rival is just waiting for you to start taking her seriously and pay attention to her presence in your life. Asking your mistress to leave your man is also not worth it - a waste of time.
Cheating on a loved one is difficult to handle, especially when he suddenly starts a permanent relationship on the side. However, nothing in this world happens just like that, think, maybe you yourself gave him a reason to look for love on the side.
Treat the situation that has arisen with extreme caution, do not immediately run to make a scandal, cool down and start acting as coolly as possible. Of course, if you decide to return your loved one, and not leave him next to your rival, let her now suffer.
