The current demographic situation suggests that men can afford to choose a lady. But there are situations when a girl who already has a boyfriend took a fancy, and she chose to choose. And you like her and only she! What to do? To begin with, sit down and calmly think, without unnecessary emotions, whether you need her enough to take any action that will require a significant investment of time and effort. If the answer is yes, let's get down to action.
Instructions
Step 1
You need to get close to a girl, and at this stage this does not mean sexual intercourse. Find out in more detail the sphere of her interests, go to the same places where she goes. Having learned what she loves, begin to be interested in this in order to be able to keep in touch with the young lady on her favorite topics.
Step 2
To become her friend with whom she can talk about everything - it is important for girls to be taken seriously.
Step 3
Learn to listen more, talk less. It is important for girls to be listened to, understood and supported.
Step 4
To be always available for her, so that she can come to the rescue at any time, if needed. And she will be needed, because all couples swear, and it will be interesting for her to know the opinion not of her friends, but of another man regarding the quarrel.
Step 5
Find out your opponent's strengths and weaknesses. Here it is important to start from the opinion of the girl herself, and not about your personal one.
Step 6
Make a list of your opponent's positive qualities and weaknesses. Write it down on paper and study it every day. You need to try to have the same virtues that she values in him. But at the same time get rid of his shortcomings in himself. For example, she likes that he meets her after school. Well, we can do that too. She doesn't like the fact that when friends call, he packs up and leaves abruptly. This means that you absolutely must not do this.
Step 7
Thus, day after day, she will see you as an ideal friend and man.
Step 8
Then you need to disappear for a while. Go somewhere or make it look like it. Left without you, the girl will understand how much space you take in her life and how important it is. The girl may not say this out of pride, but she will learn this lesson for herself.
Step 9
When you return, take an interest in her life during this time, discuss the problems. If there were any quarrels with an opponent, disassemble them in detail. And take the side of the girl, no matter how you really think.
Step 10
Now it remains to wait for their quarrel, preferably a large one, so that she is in tears. At such moments, girls are very sensitive.
Step 11
While soothing her, hug her, stroke her hair, dry her tears. Then kiss her first on the cheek, then as if inadvertently on the lips. And whisper in your ear: “What a fool! If I had such a girl, I would carry her in my arms."
Step 12
You can consider that the job is done. The girl may not immediately leave him, but this will happen very soon. And she will not go into emptiness, but to you.
