Family relationships should be based on trust. For various reasons, it can be lost. To return openness and confidence in the relationship between spouses, you need to prove your love, devotion and loyalty to your loved one.
Instructions
Step 1
It can be difficult to trust a partner, for example, after an affair. It always seems that he is not completely frank with you, does not say something, etc. In order to return the previous trusting relationship, you need to discuss the reasons for the current situation, try to understand what caused the betrayal, and identify your mistakes and mistakes. If you withdraw into yourself and accumulate grievances, then you will hardly have to expect a successful resolution of the situation.
Step 2
First of all, decide for yourself whether you should continue the relationship with the person who has lost your trust.
If you make a positive decision, then be ready to listen and understand the person. You need to learn to admit your wrongness.
Step 3
Don't be afraid to sincerely apologize for what happened. In order for the old warmth and trust to reappear, you need to allow the other person to lighten his soul. It is very important to learn not only to ask for forgiveness, but also to forgive.
Step 4
Learn not only to admit and analyze your mistakes, but also to draw conclusions from difficult situations. This is necessary in order to be sure in the future that such problems will not arise in your family.
Step 5
Be open to the new, let go of the past and do not subsequently torture your loved one with reproaches and mistrust. After discussing the situation once, do not come back to it at any appropriate opportunity.
Step 6
Show patience and understanding. Calm down and look at everything that happened from the outside.
Step 7
Don't get hung up on the same thing. Find a hobby for yourself. Better to do some interesting things together: go to the forest, to the park, go fishing. Try to spend more time together. You can, for example, go on vacation to southern countries, to the sea.
Step 8
Make joint plans for the future. Add more romance to your relationship. Remember the past: first date, love, passion. Start all over again, with a clean slate.
