Love, trust and respect are the foundation of good family relationships. Lies, mistrust, unwillingness to hear and understand each other destroy the family. Cheating only exacerbates the situation and alienates the spouses further and further. Infidelity causes unbearable pain, a sense of hopelessness and a desire to destroy everything … How to regain the husband's trust?
Instructions
Step 1
Understand that life is difficult, often unpredictable, and full of temptations that everyone must be prepared for. Love, betrayal, trust or distrust, betrayal and much more - all these are the laws of human relations, the laws of life. Cheating is the next stage in the development of relationships. This is the most difficult stage you need to go through together. This is the line after which the spouses will either learn to understand each other's feelings, and this will unite them, or they will understand that the relationship has exhausted itself and they need new ones. Do not engage in self-criticism, but try to understand the situation.
Step 2
Be consistent. If you have already done something bad, then be ready to answer for your act. Ask for forgiveness even if you felt good with the other man. Break off the relationship with that person, don't just promise, but break it off. If you want to regain trust - stop cheating.
Step 3
Sometimes you need to postpone the showdown. Let your spouse feel emotional and emotional. Do not rush or force things, start with a gradual rapprochement. Understand that someone who has been betrayed, who has been betrayed, is much more painful and difficult.
Step 4
Think it over and make sure that you both need this relationship, that reconciliation is possible, and that you both want it. Loving people can always understand each other. After all, betrayal is not necessarily a sign of "dislike".
Step 5
Talk to your spouse. It is necessary to learn to tell your husband even about very unpleasant things, because they torment us. Trust me, it's not that hard. Both you and the man need to learn to speak and listen. Do not judge, do not blame, do not "stick labels", but try to understand and help. Listen, understand, accept not only joyful, but also unpleasant moments. Together, analyze the reasons for what prompted you to do this. By cheating, a person shows his partner that there are problems in the relationship, that something does not suit the partner himself or his behavior. Only by understanding what worries you, worries, poisons your life, you can learn to act rationally, and, consequently, build further relationships.
