A wedding is a very exciting event. But the preparation for the celebration takes even more strength. The bride cannot do without helpers. Therefore, wedding witnesses must be reliable people.
Instructions
Step 1
The role of the bridesmaid is very responsible. The main task of the friends is to make sure that both the preparation and the celebration itself go properly, and the newlywed looks perfect during the holiday. The same goes for the best man - he is responsible for the rings and the groom's appearance directly at the wedding.
Step 2
Naturally, such duties can only be entrusted to close people. They can be relatives - brothers and sisters, cousins and cousins, even uncles and aunts, if they are young enough. In addition, it is worth getting rid of the stereotypes that only people who are not married can be witnesses.
Step 3
In contrast, experienced men and women can be more helpful at a wedding. In the Roman Empire, for example, a married matron was chosen as a bridesmaid, whose main duty was to drive away evil spirits from newlyweds.
Step 4
But a balance must be struck - if the boyfriend is married, then the boyfriend must also be married. You can also take a married couple. The presence of one free witness can create a certain tension in their tandem. In addition, unmarried girls agree to be bridesmaids, hoping to meet their soul mate at the wedding. So do not "slip" a married boyfriend on your friend.
Step 5
Future newlyweds should take into account that not only how the wedding will go depends on the witnesses, but also how the hen or bachelor party will be arranged. If the bride and groom decide to throw the holiday to the fullest, it is recommended to take two honorary witnesses from each side and a few more auxiliary girlfriends and boyfriends.
Step 6
So, it becomes clear that wedding witnesses should not be strangers to the bride and groom. But what if there is no suitable person in their environment? You can call friends, colleagues, classmates or distant relatives. Only in this case is it worthwhile to communicate with these people in advance in order to understand whether they are suitable for the role of witnesses.
Step 7
The main thing is to choose people who are confident, artistic, responsible, and cheerful. Witnesses should be the first assistants of the toastmaster, which means they should be able to boldly take the initiative. Otherwise, the holiday can turn into a boring action.
Step 8
Choosing the main bridesmaid is a responsible business. Therefore, it is worth going through several candidates in advance. Then, in case of unforeseen circumstances, the wedding will not be in jeopardy.
Step 9
Do not forget that a wedding is a holiday not only for newlyweds, but also for their witnesses. Therefore, the future girlfriend and best man should be introduced if they have never seen each other before. If they find a common language, they will work in tandem. If antipathy arises between the witnesses, it is worth replacing one of them. Otherwise, the holiday will be held in a tense atmosphere.
