Each person, entering into marriage, hopes that he will be forever. The strength of the union of a man and a woman is due to how happy they are with each other. Often, after several years of living together, passion and romance give way to kindred feelings, which are also called a habit. How can spouses rekindle the flame in a relationship?
Necessary
- - personal care products;
- - romantic trip.
Instructions
Step 1
Pay close attention to your appearance. A woman needs to take care of her figure, not be lazy to style her hair and do makeup, even if she is not going to leave the house. For home clothes, you need to choose something comfortable, but attractive: not a shapeless robe, but, for example, a knitted dress that emphasizes the figure. A man should pay attention to always look neat, shaved, combed, and smell good.
Step 2
If you have children, most likely, not only they, but you yourself are used to seeing each other as parents. Don't call your spouse "mom" or "dad". Replace such appeals with gentle and playful ones: "baby", "bunny", "pussy" …
Step 3
If the children are old enough to be left in the care of grandparents, go on a romantic trip together. Very close and sharpen the feelings of adventure that people go through together. Therefore, hiking, river rafting, mountain climbing and other activities that are associated with overcoming dangers are the best suited.
Step 4
Balance the time you spend with your work and hobbies and the time you spend with your family. Overweight in one direction or the other negatively affects the relationship. Work and hobbies are your reserve in order to remain an interesting person. Psychologists have long noticed that such an individual field of activity cements marital relations well. However, if, by getting too carried away, you do not pay attention to your spouse, it is possible that disunity will arise between you.
Step 5
Make pleasant surprises for your spouse, try to be an unpredictable person in a good way. Give genuine compliments. Figure out how to diversify your usual routines.
Step 6
Joint leisure has a very good effect on relationships, and it doesn't matter if you are alone or with children. Skiing, ice skating, rollerblading, and just walking in the park will revive spiritual intimacy.
Step 7
An important part of a spouse's relationship is intimate life. Find something new here, surprise your loved one.
Step 8
Finally, there should be no place for foul language, disrespect and selfishness in the family. If you already at the beginning of family life put a barrier to these destructive phenomena, and decades later, in the eyes of your spouse, you will not lose your attractiveness.
