Sometimes it happens that the relationship of two people in love grows cold over time. Passion and jealousy pass, and they are replaced by routine and habit.
The hero of not your novel
It is normal when a woman is alone, it is bad when she is alone, but lives with a man. Indeed, no one wants to be lonely. But it so happens that relationships are no longer enjoyable, they have outlived their usefulness. It's very scary to live your life with the wrong person.
How to tell if your feelings are cold
How do you know if your feelings are cooling down? Probably, first of all, you should listen to your own inner voice. If you catch yourself thinking that you are no longer waiting for his call, do not rush home, rejoice if your loved one is absent - these are the first signs that not everything is so smooth in the relationship.
There is usually some kind of apathy. I don't want to surprise, come up with surprises, create pleasant moments, no matter how active you are.
Remember about the chain reaction. If you do nothing for this relationship, usually, the man also grows cold and stops taking the initiative. You can meet, live together, run a common household, but relationships are just a habit for you.
Break up or fight?
This is a very important question that you must honestly answer yourself. Try shaking yourself up a bit to get started. Perhaps a change of scenery will help. Far from each other, you will understand what place this person occupies in your life, how easy it is for you without him. You can try to warm up the relationship by taking the initiative yourself. Try banal methods - do not find fault, do not be frowned, do not control. Prepare your favorite dish, please the man. Get creative in bed.
Perhaps you only need a couple of romantic evenings, and love and anxious care will return to the relationship.
Joint rest and, in general, any bright positive impressions received together work well
But what if none of the above helps? You need to show wisdom. Perhaps this is a temporary crisis and things may change soon. Or perhaps, sadly, your relationship has become obsolete. This often happens when one of the couple, as it were, outgrows the other - achieves something more in his career, or vice versa, has some problems that oppress him. As a result, lovers move away from each other, their interests and life values change.
Before you end the relationship, think carefully about whether you will regret it later. But if you firmly decided that the wrong person is next to you, do not keep him. Make room for your happiness.
