You may have thought more than once that it’s time to start a long-term relationship. And despite the fact that fun and games with feelings are a thing of the past, this cannot be done. Communication with the opposite sex is an art that also needs to be learned. How to start a serious relationship?
Instructions
Step 1
Review your previous relationship. How did your last romance end? And the penultimate one? Do they have something in common? Consider if you yourself are avoiding serious relationships? You may be unknowingly meeting the wrong partners. To start a serious relationship, you need, first of all, an inner readiness. If young fun is in the past, and you have changed, understand for yourself why a serious relationship is needed? How will it look like? What do you want to get from interaction with the opposite sex?
Step 2
Decide what kind of partner you are looking for. Identify five basic qualities of a man or woman that are important for living together. Do not put rigid frames and do not come up with too much. Also identify five of your qualities that you are ready to give to your partner in a relationship. A serious love affair provides for a "mature" relationship, adults, where partners are ready to give more, give feelings, care, attention, rather than demand something from each other.
Step 3
Meet the opposite sex. Communicate. Provide yourself with a choice. You cannot figure out who is more suitable for love until you compare. Take your pick. Do not start a relationship with serious statements, do not force events. Chat with your partner, track your feelings. How comfortable are you with each other? Let the relationship develop.
Step 4
When you have made a choice, turn off your head and leave your feelings. Develop relationships. Make checkpoints periodically: analyze the love affair from time to time. Are you good together? Is the interaction developing the way you want it to? In mature relationships, there are also conflicts and misunderstandings. All couples have disagreements, and we must learn to overcome them competently. You will have a lot to learn, because pair interaction is a school of life. If the relationship does not start to develop the way you want, and the feeling of love for your partner is strong, do a reboot. Talk, find out what does not suit whom. Decide whether you will make concessions, because adults do so, and what exactly they are ready to do for each other for the sake of light love and harmonious relationships.
