If your relationship has stopped developing, stopping at the initial stage, you have reason to think. When you love a person, it is very sad that he does not want to introduce you to his parents and see yours, does not seek to start a life together.
Instructions
Step 1
Determine the reason that prevents your relationship from moving to the next level. Try to find out what exactly scares and repels your chosen one. Perhaps he is insecure and afraid of responsibility. If he does not earn enough, this may also be the reason for the reluctance to start a family. Maybe he still needs to check his feelings for you and make sure that you are the one for life. Unpreparedness for a serious relationship may stem from his general attitude towards women - he simply did not walk up. Time may change this position, but think if you have it, if you want to wait.
Step 2
Talk to a man if you think he is afraid of responsibility, afraid of not coping. Tell him that he can rely on you. Dream about how you will achieve everything together, how you will help each other. Try to let him know that you need him and no one else. If the reason is money, try to write down your future expenses by item and clearly show that your joint income will be enough for a comfortable existence.
Step 3
Switch to yourself if you realize that your loved one doubts his feelings for you. Look at yourself from the outside and think about how you will change. Imagine that you are a young man and decide if you would fall in love with yourself. Take care of your appearance, update your hairstyle or wardrobe. At the same time, think about yourself, and do not do everything for the sake of your partner. Sign up for courses you have long wanted to attend. Start taking dance lessons. Be more interested in work and colleagues. Meet your friends. May you have a new, interesting life. Perhaps, seeing this, your chosen one will reconsider his attitude towards you.
Step 4
Think about whether you need such a man. If all else fails, imagine what would happen if you broke up. Surely a lot will remain in your life. Make a choice: wait and hope, perhaps in vain, or take your destiny into your own hands.
