Divorce is an ordeal for two people who once loved each other. Life after him does not always become easier, especially if the spouse realizes that he does not want to let his wife go.
Instructions
Step 1
Make a firm decision. After a divorce, people feel devastated, and only for this reason they often strive to return to their old relationship. Think carefully about whether you need a relationship with a woman who broke up and reached the divorce proceedings. Only after a firm decision take action.
Step 2
Analyze the situation leading to the divorce. Remember your life together, in which there were many mistakes. Think about what drove you to divorce. Don't look for the last straw, dig deeper and understand the reasons for dissatisfaction with each other.
Step 3
Make contact with your ex. Start communication, it is advisable to do it gradually, without falling on the head of your ex-wife. Do not be persistent, just remind of your existence, encourage people to talk about the wonderful moments of life together. Support her in any situation, help if needed. Time changes people's attitudes, and perhaps your wife will understand that she made a mistake.
Step 4
Fix past mistakes. Knowing exactly what irritated your spouse, get rid of it. Any habit can be abandoned, any character trait, if not corrected, then at least smoothed out. Seeing big changes, your spouse will appreciate it.
Step 5
Admit your guilt. Never blame your wife for the divorce. On the contrary, it is better to exaggerate your share in this, but not to refuse to acknowledge participation in the collapse of the marriage.
