The gap between the spouses is a strong emotional shock for both parties. When a man leaves for another, it seems that the world has collapsed. It is important for a woman to understand that this is not so. As soon as she becomes stronger, and the spree husband is ready to return.
Instructions
Step 1
The gap is painfully reflected in a woman's self-esteem, even if the spouse was not dearly loved. She feels like a failure, because the family, which seemed to be created forever, turned out to be a failed enterprise. In this situation, the main thing is not to blame yourself for the breakup. The man chose another? This does not mean that you are worthless.
Step 2
To shame a husband, to bombard him with messages with hysterical demands to return home, to threaten a ban on communicating with common children are useless classes. Do not call him in the middle of the night in the hope that he will finally come to his senses and abandon his new passion. This will only make him angry.
Step 3
You have time to correct the situation. Are you dedicated exclusively to caring for your family? Now take care of your appearance, health, change wardrobe, update your hairstyle. These simple maneuvers miraculously cure an inferiority complex.
Step 4
Drowning grief in wine, indulging in spree, hatching plans for revenge on a lover are not at all effective measures, but attempts to drown out the mental pain. You are experiencing severe stress, which is not easy to cope with alone. Talk to a psychologist. He will not bring her husband back, but he will get rid of the thoughts that life is over.
Step 5
Your task is to accept the fact that your husband is gone and not stop loving yourself. Let him know that you do not intend to bury yourself within four walls, waiting for his return. Leave the door open. If you're really willing to take him back, tell him he can come back if he wants to, but don't beg him to do it.
Step 6
No matter how difficult it is, do not withdraw into yourself. Chat with people, go to parties, don't give up your favorite hobby. At first, positive emotions will be weak, especially if you are used to spending leisure time with your husband. But over time, you will feel a lot of relief.
Step 7
Flirt with other men! Although you are not yet ready for a new relationship, it is very pleasant to feel beautiful and desirable. Give yourself gifts. Go on a trip, even for a couple of days to a neighboring city. Can't your husband find you at home? Well, these are his difficulties.
Step 8
It turns out that living alone is not at all scary, and sometimes even pleasant. You have re-created yourself - beautiful and desired, the escaped husband cannot fail to notice. Be sure that mutual acquaintances will tell him about your successes. He left his wife, to whom he was accustomed, and now in front of him is a completely different woman. Are you sure you are ready to prefer him to a new gentleman?
