Many couples have problems in marriage, but not all of them lead to divorce. It is possible to return your husband who left you on your own, you just have to think a little about what is happening and be ready to change.
Instructions
Step 1
Analyze your relationship. Moreover, this must be done not only with your current marriage, but also with past novels. Perhaps you are repeating the same mistake cyclically, which again led to parting with your loved one. Find it and try to figure out the causes of this problem. Perhaps at this stage you will need the help of a psychologist, because not everyone is able to cope on their own, for example, with children's complexes.
Step 2
Talk to your husband. You cannot do without clarifying the relationship, and at this moment it is important to follow several rules. In no case raise your voice, do not bombard him with reproaches and claims, do not complain or blame your husband. Maintain a calm tone in your dialogue, listen to it and try to understand the true motives for leaving you.
Step 3
Don't put conditions. You can't bargain for your own relationship. Don't wait to come back after announcing that you want to change. Don't put your husband in the position of the victim and yourself the hunter.
Step 4
Change. Not in words, not for a couple of weeks or a month, but really and forever. After discussing the problems of your marriage with your husband, you are likely to draw several conclusions about your wrong behavior or attitude towards something. It is in these areas that you need to change your habits, actions, or words.
Step 5
Don't shut yourself up. You should not lock yourself at home and mourn the departure of your loved one. Show him that you are a self-sufficient woman, capable of living a fulfilling life without his participation in it. Meet with friends, communicate, do not be afraid of new acquaintances. This will prove to your husband that you do not belong to the category of women who nag men because of their loneliness and lack of normal communication.
