Talking about sex with a teenage child is a must for parents. How to properly talk to your teen about sex.
Instructions
Step 1
You shouldn't talk about sex as something forbidden and dirty. Sex is a natural process between two loving people who trust each other. A child should know that by deciding to have sex with a loved one, he takes responsibility for himself and for his other half.
Step 2
In adolescence, you can talk about sex openly, if necessary, mention all the details. There is nothing shameful in intimate relationships between people, so it is better to tell everything that interests the child, without exaggeration or understatement. The best protection for a teenager, awareness of all issues. The main thing is to try to speak freely, without hesitation, so that the child also does not feel embarrassed in front of you, since it will not end with one conversation. A teenager should boldly ask you about everything of interest, know that at any time you will answer all his questions.
Step 3
Tell about the relationship between the sexes, that sex is just an addition to an already established, strong, trusting relationship. The pleasure of sex can only be obtained with a loved one, or with a deeply sympathetic. Do not give in to persuasion, try for the sake of interest, lose virginity under the influence of alcohol. This will leave a feeling of dissatisfaction, after this it becomes disgusting and the first impressions of sex life may form incorrect ones. Therefore, it is better to postpone the moment of sexual intimacy and enjoy communication, kisses and how to get closer to your loved one.
Step 4
Teach the girl to firmly refuse. Do not be afraid to alienate your beloved guy, if he is interested in her not only as a sexual object, he will wait as long as necessary. A teenage boy should remember that it is necessary to respect the opinion of the girl, not to put pressure on her in any way, not to resort to violence, followed by serious consequences for both. Teach your teen to behave like a real adult, responsible man.
Step 5
Talk to your child that you shouldn't start having sex just because everyone is already doing it. A teenager must firmly and stand his ground, which is a sign of a self-confident, adult, full-fledged, independent person who has his own opinion.
