If you want to offer your hand and heart to a woman who is 10 years older than you, keep in mind that she needs something quite different from 20-year-old girls. We will show you what needs to be done to make your proposal accepted!
You are dating a beautiful woman and are already ripe to propose to propose to her, because you already understand that you dreamed of such a life partner! But there is one caveat: she is 10 years older than you. As the heroine of the old film "You never dreamed of …" said: "I'm a whole school older than you!" The main thing is that this does not bother either your chosen one or you. By the way, such marriages are now in vogue. But what do you care about fashion when emotions flow like a fountain?
What to consider?
So, it remains only to find out how to offer your beloved hand and heart? We need to come up with something original! However, do not go too far and sing a serenade with a symphony orchestra under her window. Ask why?
The fact is that such an extravagant act would have been more to the taste of a young lady who is prone to demonstrative behavior and who wants to declare to the whole world: "This man is mine!" Older ladies already know well what they want, and the close attention of strangers at such a touching moment as a marriage proposal can only confuse them. So, you need a romantic, intimate atmosphere!
What to say?
In addition to the main part: “Be my wife!”, Do you need to make some kind of opening speech? Undoubtedly! And here different women will be "hooked" by completely different things. At 20, a girl longs to hear from you a promise to carry her in her arms, at 25 - assurances that you will allow her to live the way she wants. With age, the fair sex begins to appreciate completely different promises … Assure her that she will be calm, reliable and well with you - the notorious "like behind a stone wall." And, of course, words should not be at odds with deeds!
Where and how?
Of course, your marriage proposal should be remembered! No woman wants you to walk up to her in the kitchen in the morning and say, “Make me some tea. And by the way, marry me. Try to create a more romantic setting! Here are some ideas:
• simple option: dinner at a restaurant and a ring at the bottom of a glass of champagne. Not bad, but you should carefully approach the choice of the restaurant - it should not have too many visitors (remember that we wrote above about the crowd of observers), but let the institution be fashionable enough;
• traditional: a bouquet of flowers with an attached postcard "Become my wife!" You can do it a little differently: order a cake with a similar inscription. But you need to hand over a bouquet or cake yourself, and not order delivery;
• original: invite your loved one for a horseback ride, and at the right time, take out the box with the ring. You can invite her on a boat ride, but in this case, make sure that the box does not fall overboard, otherwise you will suddenly drop it with excitement.
Believe me, if you try and approach the marriage proposal with a soul, your chosen one will remember this day for a lifetime!
