Even the most romantic and passionate relationships begin to fade over time. Psychologists say that the most passionate love cannot “live” more than 3-4 years. Maybe somehow you can extend the charm of love for a year, month, day, hour, or better for an indefinite period?
Instructions
Step 1
If you do not take into account the relationship of convenience, where, and so it was initially "cool", then a tremendous hormonal surge in the body, pushing humanity to love frenzy and ensuring the continuation of the human race, sooner or later may end. During this period, it is worthwhile to step back at least for a while, take off your "rose-colored glasses" and try to see a real person.
Step 2
If the relationship was originally built on the basis of the principle “I'm running away, they are catching up with me,” then the “prey” should remain appetizing all the time, because hardly anyone wants to “hunt” a woman in hair curlers, a flowery stretched dressing gown, peremptory notes in her voice, and so on. charms ". The return of the "presentation" and playful mood is the primary task in this case.
Step 3
Mutual trust and respect is the foundation without which relationships cannot exist. The main thing is not to play at the prosecutor and the convict. If one person in another cannot accept something, then the second one will start to “close” internally at first, and eventually give back. Try to perceive your partner as he is, and not as you want him to be.
Step 4
Lovely whims and playing at an eternally defenseless creature over time also begin to get boring. This applies equally to women and men. A man cannot be an eternal dad for an eternal child, and a woman cannot be Mother Teresa, saving every minute of such an "unlucky, timid, indecisive …" - there are countless options. Complaining whining will sooner or later become annoying. Try to become more independent and stop "hanging" all your problems on your chosen one (chosen one) in the hope that this way he (she) will not have the time and energy to cheat.
Step 5
Find common interests, hobbies. This does not mean that you have to jump with a parachute, if this is what your partner is most passionate about. But to understand this topic is simply a must. Of course, in the event that the hobbies of a loved one cause the same excitement in you, and not panic attacks or rejection. The falsity will be felt immediately.
