Renewing a relationship is a complex process that requires special attention and thought. Before deciding on it, you need to weigh everything carefully and make sure that you really need it. Moreover, when it comes to approaching a man's heart.
Instructions
Step 1
Analyze your past relationships. Their duration, quality, and also why you broke up play a big role. If he was at fault, then make sure the guy has changed and regrets what happened. If, on the contrary, then you will have to work hard to explain to him, win forgiveness and convince him of your feelings.
Step 2
Behave appropriately for the situation. If your fault, then in dealing with him you need to show deep respect and, on occasion (when his feelings subside a little), apologize, without touching on the issue of renewing the relationship. If the situation is the opposite, then you need to keep your distance, making it clear that his act has affected you and is unacceptable. But just don't overdo it so it doesn't look arrogant. Your behavior should induce him to apologize and show that you are ready to listen to him.
Step 3
Let him miss you. Agree that life goes on, and there is no need to hold on to the guy, as if he is the only one on earth. Even if you love him very much. Spending time apart will help each of you analyze your relationship and draw conclusions. It will be inappropriate for the girl to constantly pester the guy with calls, letters, SMS messages and the like. Moreover, do not show dependence on him by immediately grabbing the phone to answer his call or message. Be independent and free.
Step 4
Solve the problem in an adult way. It is not necessary to write notes as a reconciliation or indirectly hint at the renewal of relations. Moreover, it is unacceptable to use the help of a third party. Just say that you want to discuss an important issue with him. Choose the right time and setting. Nobody and nothing should distract you.
Step 5
Be prepared for rejection. Chances are, your ex will not be ready for change right away. Or maybe his reaction will be too negative and categorical. Get ready for everything. Do not be offended by his emotions, but try to understand the feelings behind them. Moreover, if after a while after your conversation he wants to talk again, then do not remember his past reaction to him.
