Sometimes it is difficult for a person to understand their feelings. Often, falling in love is confused with sympathy, with the desire to communicate with another person, or even with the fear of loneliness. It is usually difficult to understand that love has come for those people who have not experienced anything like this before. But still, there are signs by which you can understand whether love has appeared in your life.
There are quite a few signs of love. It is important to understand that each person is different, and therefore it is unrealistic to find a universal list of possible behavior of a lover. If one person is embarrassed and says stupid things when the object of passion is near, then the other will not manifest such behavior.
The main symptoms of love
You idealize the person
As a rule, a person in love does not notice the shortcomings of his chosen one, even if there is still no talk of a possible relationship. Often, lovers react too aggressively to criticism of the object of love, without noticing it.
You constantly want to talk about your loved one
If all your conversations with other people sooner or later come to the same person, then you should think about whether this is love. At the same time, it is important to understand that talking about another person may not always be in a positive way. Still, the relationship of the love / hate format has not yet been canceled.
Rapid pulse and fever
As a rule, next to loved ones, people have an increase in heart rate and pulse. Many also feel feverish. These signs cannot be called mandatory, but most people noticed this at the very beginning of a relationship. This reaction is associated with the release of hormones.
The desire to help in all the object of passion
Sometimes such impulses can be almost suicidal, so you need to sensibly assess your strengths and capabilities. As a rule, the desire to impress a potential partner is so strong that a person is ready to spend his last money on a thing that a loved one dreams of. Or a person with a sore back may agree to help the future soul mate with the move and thus ruin their health even more.
Desire to please in everything
This feature follows from the previous one. The inability to deny anything to a particular person often speaks of possible falling in love.
Suddenly surging jealousy
If you have never been a jealous person, but suddenly began to experience similar feelings towards another, then this may indicate an incipient love.
Sexual attraction
This sign cannot be called the most important, because many people can experience sexual attraction exclusively to the body shell. However, if your fantasies are visited by the same person with enviable regularity, it is worth considering. With a high probability, sexual attraction will talk about easy love. Especially if this sign appeared first.
Feeling euphoric
Falling in love is wonderful. That is why many lovers at first feel incredibly happy and sometimes seem not even completely sane people.
Feeling sad
Often, a person in love also experiences endless sadness. Usually, euphoria is abruptly replaced by sadness, and something average in a person in love simply does not happen.
Feeling vulnerable
Typically, a person in love feels incredibly weak morally. The stronger the love, the stronger this feeling. It turns out this is due to the fact that the lover is dependent on the object of sighing so strongly that sometimes it reaches the point of absurdity and senseless torment.
How to understand that a man has fallen in love
He tries to touch you
Usually, it is through physical contact that men try to hint at their feelings. When a man barely knows a woman attractive to him, the touch will be disguised as casual. He "accidentally" touches the palm of his beloved with his hand, completely "accidentally" sits so close that his breathing will be heard. This list can be continued endlessly, but it will be different for every man.
He will always be there
Whether you like it or not, a man in love will try in every possible way to remind of himself. Wherever you are, he will definitely be there. This behavior may even resemble stalking, but men often do not think about such trifles. A man in love will study your schedule better than his own, but only in order to constantly flicker before your eyes.
If a man falls in love, then it will be a huge blow for him if the woman he loves forgets about his existence even for a moment.
He will try to look indifferent
As a rule, this behavior is typical for those who have watched films or heard a lot of advice from friends. Many men are sure that an indifferent look attracts women, makes them tease with questions like: "Why isn't he looking at me?" and "why is he so cold with me?"
Unfortunately, men in love do not understand that in most cases women simply do not notice this. As soon as a man plays with indifference for a week or two, he is forgotten and someone who looks more interested in the relationship is found.
He will hint that you are only interesting to him
Men are afraid of competition, and this has long been a fact. If a woman has a large selection of men for building relationships, then the most cunning will try to prove to her partner that no one needs her. Such a person will constantly give out to his beloved woman incriminating evidence against rivals (often invented by him), and then generously take her into his arms when she is disappointed in other possible partners.
As a rule, men who allow themselves to do this are not suitable for a relationship. They are the ones who evolve into home tyrants and kitchen boxers.
How to understand that a woman is in love
Loud sounds and fake joy
Many women are sure that loud conversations with girlfriends, laughter for no reason and a constant smile on their face can attract a man's attention.
There is a version among scientists that with a loud laugh, a woman on a subconscious level shows that she is enjoying herself in bed. This opinion has often been played up in films and TV shows, but this version still looks absurd.
In fact, loud women irritate both men and other women, so you should not use such a technique if you do not want to be branded as stupid and incapable of behaving in society.
Gaze
As a rule, a woman in love is unable to look away from the object of sighing. This is due to interest in a person and constant thoughts about him. If a woman meets her beloved's eyes, she is most often embarrassed. Some, the most daring women, on the contrary, continue to drill the object of adoration with their eyes in order to hint at feelings.
Surprisingly, men often consider this behavior to be a manifestation of aggression, and not a sign of love.
Excessive care and obsession
Usually, these signs appear already when the woman communicated her feelings to her beloved. Such ladies in a relationship take on the role of a mother, and a man gets the role of a child. Many women in love try to take care of their partner, but sometimes it goes beyond all limits.
As soon as a man sneezes in such a relationship, a handkerchief will be immediately extended to him, it is worth hinting that it is time to go to lunch, as he will be given a lunch box with homemade food. At first, such expressions of concern seem cute, but over time, they cross all boundaries.
Thus, a woman tries to show her economy and readiness for life together, but a man turns into a helpless child who has found a second mother. Taking care of a loved one is always great, but do not forget that he is also an adult and capable person.
