The ideal way to start a conversation with your teen about sex is when he comes up to you with his question. However, if time goes on, the child does not talk about sex with you, plunges into this topic with the help of friends or the Internet, try to raise the topic of sex on your own.
Instructions
Step 1
First, tell us why people have sex. It is important for the teenager to understand that sex is primarily pleasure. Discuss who and why people can have sex with each other. For example, that it can be people of the same or different sex, that they feel sympathy and sexual attraction for each other, that they feel safe in each other's company, trust each other and can freely discuss their sexual desires, preferences and restrictions among themselves. …
Step 2
Second, raise the issue of active consent to sex. It is important for the teenager to understand that if a person does not give a clear and clear consent to sex, this is a reason to doubt that this contact is desirable for him. This also applies to the teenager himself: if he or she doubts that he wants to have sex with the person who offers it, then he or she has every right to refuse without explanation. Sex without consent is rape, a criminal offense; sex with minors is punishable by law. Sex without clear consent and strong desire can damage both physically and psychologically.
Step 3
Third, talk about the measures that make sex safe. On the need to protect against sexually transmitted diseases using a condom in any kind of sex. Tell us about your contraceptive options. Moreover, it is important to discuss this issue with both girls and boys, instilling in them a sense of responsibility for unprotected sex and the possible pregnancy of a friend.
