If earlier the most common places of acquaintance were nightclubs, meeting through acquaintances, now in our progressive society there are a large number of ways of acquaintance. The most popular are dating through social networks and various dating sites.
Instructions
Step 1
Fill in your information correctly. Jokes aren't particularly appropriate in this section if you're really serious about dating a guy. Try to make yourself stand out as much as possible. Visit the park regularly, do not forget to mention this. In the future, you can invite the guy for a walk together. Do not fill out the profile in the questionnaire with a lot of information. Believe me, there is more interesting literature than your biography.
Step 2
Upload a photo. As a rule, there are a lot of profiles without photos on dating sites and on social networks. They are not successful. It is much more pleasant to communicate with a person over the network, having at least some idea of the interlocutor. However, you shouldn't upload the whole album either. Your opponent may think that you live directly in the virtual world. Ideally, it is recommended to upload 3-5 photos. These should be your best shots that tell a little about you.
Step 3
Try to communicate with respect and tact. You should not start a dialogue with a stranger with the words: “Hello. How are you? . It is unlikely that the standard approach will interest the interlocutor. Also, do not pay attention to likes photos, gifts or various winks. If paid gifts are created solely to enrich site creators, then winks and emoticons personify an element of recognition. Their actions, by the way, are extremely exaggerated.
Step 4
Don't start with compliments. From your praises, the interlocutor is neither hot nor cold. In addition, initially you can lose confidence. Carefully review all the photos and study the information of the person you like. Try to find common interests. This approach will generate a favorable dialogue and give a start for long-term communication.
Step 5
Ask questions to the interlocutor. In this way, you will gradually engage your opponent in communication. Let's give more detailed answers, take your time. Try to put the questions in such a way that you do not get unambiguous answers "yes" or "no" to them. Observe the grammar of the Russian language.
Step 6
Don't get bored with communication. Everyone has their own business. Don't write to someone every 15 minutes. It is better to communicate once a day, but with good quality. By the way, the time for conversations can be discussed in advance with the interlocutor. Try in these minutes to share your events and stories that happened during the day. This is much more interesting than just finding out who is busy at the moment and how you are doing.
Step 7
Don't delay your appointment. Virtual communication can take several months. But you shouldn't insist on a meeting either. The offer should be unobtrusive. For example, you might suggest going to the cinema for an afternoon show, or taking a walk in the park. If you get a refusal, think about whether you should change the interlocutor. There are a lot of so-called virtual guys on the Internet who, in principle, are not tuned in to live communication.
