You have been waiting for this day for so long. Excitement and joy are experienced not only by you, but also by your loved one. It is more difficult for young people returning from the army. They were far from their hometown, from their parents, from their beloved girl. And all this time you have been here in your usual conditions. Therefore, the meeting of a soldier should help him to adapt again to civilian life.
Be sure to meet your loved one at the train station. These very first minutes are so important to both of you. They will remain forever in your memory. The heart breaks out of my chest, tears of joy are in my eyes and there are no words, just a strong hug. There will be only one thought in his head: “Wait! She waited for me!"
You become no longer just a beloved girl who wrote letters to the soldier, but almost immediately a bride for whom he will be ready to do everything. Surely, you want to say tender words to your beloved about your feelings - do not hesitate. Throughout his service, you both thought of what you would say when you met, but now, when your eyes met, all the words were messed up. It happens, the heart will help you.
Perhaps your loved one wants you to accompany him when meeting with his parents, friends. He will want to show you near and dear, so that everyone can see that his girlfriend is the best, that she managed to keep her feelings for this long time. Be prepared for this, arrange a day off at work in advance, or warn that you will not come to lectures to study.
Prepare a surprise for your loved one. After meeting an infinite number of relatives, you can finally be alone. During their service in the army, both changed. You have not seen each other for too long, but you have remembered each other even before parting. Your views, thoughts, worldview could change. You think that you still love each other, but the feelings for you were the same as you were once upon a time. No wonder they say that the army is a test of feelings.
Now you have to get used to each other again, to find out what has changed in you. Therefore, the first romantic evening is undoubtedly needed. Your surprise to your beloved may consist of a walk around the city, your favorite places, where you met, for the first time he kissed you. Memories, laughter - all this will "revive" feelings and bring you closer together again. After the walk, you can move on to a romantic dinner.
It is better to spend the evening at home. Such an atmosphere, cozy, homely, which a soldier dreamed for so long, will more endear you to each other. But you can go to the hotel, where you have already prepared everything in advance. The table covered with a beautiful snow-white tablecloth can be decorated with rose petals, turn off the lights, leave only the candles, turn on gentle slow music, change into your best dress, so as once upon a time, to win the heart of a man. Flirt, say pleasant words to each other - this evening is yours. And it only depends on you how it goes and what first memories a young man who has just returned from the army will have.
The table during a romantic dinner should be away from the TV.
The tablecloth and cutlery should be festive.
You should sit opposite each other.
Start your dinner with memories of your first date. You can refer to your joint photos.
There shouldn't be a lot of food and it should be light. Ice cream, mousses, puddings, fruits are perfect (after all, you didn’t come to dinner, but stay together, chat, remember feelings).