Sometimes it can be very difficult to just get to know a girl. But it is even more difficult to keep her close, to maintain interest. Most often, there is not enough knowledge about human relationships, about the relationship between a man and a woman, elementary courage and self-confidence.
Instructions
Step 1
Overcome your fear. The most common reason is the fear that the girl might refuse to meet. Of course, rejection causes unpleasant feelings and experiences, but this is surmountable. Build confidence and self-esteem.
Step 2
Any acquaintance begins with the first impression. It is formed in a few minutes and is determined by the characteristics of a person's appearance and behavior. In the first impression, everything is important: how you are dressed, how you carry yourself. Haircut, clothing, demeanor, condition of hands and nails, smell - all these directly affect how you are perceived.
Step 3
Get interested in the girl you like. Knowledge of your merits can play a good role in this. Think about what you do best. Keep the conversation going. Choose a topic that is interesting to both. But avoid issues of sports, fishing, politics, economics - as a rule, girls are not too interested in this. It is better to choose abstract topics - those that help to dream, relax.
Step 4
Talk less about yourself, it is better to give personal information in parts, so you can maintain interest in your person. Don't lie about the main thing. Better keep silent or promise to tell another time. But don't ask her too many questions. The conversation shouldn't feel like an interrogation.
Step 5
You should also not tell your girlfriend about your love affairs or complain that you recently broke up, scold your ex-girlfriend. It is better to start an acquaintance from scratch and fill it in together.
Step 6
Compliments when communicating with girls are necessary, but everything is fine in moderation. If you are "scattering" a lot of compliments at once, it can look like banal flattery. Or a girl may mistake you for a womanizer, a collector of women's hearts. A win-win option is to present flowers when you meet. If you like it, she will show signs of attention: a friendly smile, an interested conversation, a long look.
Step 7
In further relationships, show initiative and perseverance, get your way. Girls appreciate it. But by no means turn into an inadequate or boring person. Try to be romantic, surprise your beloved.
Step 8
Be attentive to your girlfriend, do not alter or re-educate her, do not "customize" for yourself. She is an independent person. But becoming a slave to her desires is also not worth it. Maintain your dignity.
Step 9
Solve all problems that arise in the process of establishing further relations together, take care of each other and your relationship will be long and lasting.
