Not a single family is immune from quarrels and disagreements. Perhaps such moments are even necessary to reconsider your views on relationships and appreciate your partner even more. But so that the quarrel does not grow into a large abyss between the spouses, it must be perceived correctly and not commit rash acts.
Instructions
Step 1
Pause. After a quarrel, it is better not to rush to continue to sort things out. Even if you feel that you have cooled down and are ready to talk, let your partner calm down. All people are different, and for someone a few minutes or even an hour is not enough to calmly react to any word spoken immediately after a spat. Sit in silence, get distracted by your daily activities, trying not to think about what happened between you.
Step 2
Don't screw yourself up. Surely both you and your husband have their own vision of the problem that has arisen between you. And it is not necessary that one of you is right and the other is categorically wrong. Understand that in any such situation, both spouses are to blame. Is it worth looking for the culprit, digging into the origins of the disagreement? It may be better to forgive your husband for the harsh words spoken to you in the heat of a quarrel, and ask for forgiveness yourself.
Step 3
Look at the problem through the eyes of your soul mate. Analyze why he thinks so, why he disagrees with you. Perhaps you can understand why you did not agree on a particular issue and can figure out how you both can come to a compromise. Never think that your relationship is at an impasse. There is a way out of any situation. And if you both try to meet each other halfway, you will be able to make up and draw the right conclusions about how to behave in such moments.
Step 4
Don't let your pride run wild. This noble feeling is completely out of place in family relationships. Even if it is difficult for you, try to cool down and calm down as quickly as possible after quarrels. Never forget that your husband is by your side, and every minute spent in bad relations with each other can lead to great difficulties in the relationship. Do not push your spouse away if he came up for reconciliation first. Surely it was also difficult for him to forget about pride and decide to apologize. Do not be cold with your half, try to keep such moments as few as possible in your life together.
