Unfortunately, the life of a couple in love is not only about roses and songs. Quarrels can be very difficult to avoid, especially if a man and a woman already live together and are forced to constantly solve everyday problems. However, this does not mean that a guy has the right to insult his girlfriend or husband - wife. If this does happen, you need to behave correctly so that the unpleasant situation does not repeat itself in the future.
Instructions
Step 1
Do not respond with an insult to an insult, especially if your boyfriend is quick-tempered and in a fit of anger does not follow his words, and after a quarrel he regrets what he said. Most likely, he will ask you for forgiveness when he calms down. If he is one of those who just wants to humiliate a girl, ignore all his rude words, do not take them to heart, and even more so do not make a scandal. A slap in the face in such cases will also not be the best option. If you find it difficult to contain yourself, go to another room.
Step 2
If you see that a guy is insulting you on purpose, and not just saying whatever comes into his head, do not let him know that hurtful words hurt you. On the contrary, answer him coldly and ironically. There is no need to shout or even more to cry, otherwise the offender will understand that he touched you for a living.
Step 3
Do not try to make excuses or prove to the man that he is wrong. You just have to make it clear to him that his insults are not only groundless, but also stupid, which means that he himself makes himself a laughing stock. Show a keen interest in the guy's words. You may even notice that he says amazing things, because you did not know such details about yourself before. Of course, at the same time you yourself must understand that the man's insults have nothing to do with you.
Step 4
Try to calm the guy down. Sometimes the words "do you yourself understand what you are saying?" or "do you realize how unpleasant it is for me to hear all this?" sober a man, cool his ardor and make him realize that he has said too much. If your quarrel occurs in front of strangers, especially in front of children, point your boyfriend about it. You can also let him know how ridiculous he looks by making a scandal in front of other people.
Step 5
When the guy comes to his senses, ask him to never insult you again. In the event that he continues to humiliate you, you should seriously think about breaking up the relationship. The fact is that intentional violent insults can later go on to the next stage - beating. If the guy is just quick-tempered and does not control himself in a fit of anger, try to calmly discuss the problem with him and find a solution together.
