When you meet, the first minutes are very important. They determine whether a person wants to communicate with you further or switches his attention to someone else.
Where to start acquaintance
The easiest way is to tune in to a relaxed mood and start your acquaintance with some simple question. For example, in a cafe you can approach a person you like and ask what is better to order. It is very easy to start a conversation by asking if he often visits this restaurant. If yes, then you can ask for a recommendation of a dish. If the person replies that he, like you, is here for the first time, offer to ask the waiter together what is worth trying.
It is very important to make eye contact when meeting. Don't be afraid to look the person in the eye while smiling. This is a clear sign of your affection, to which he will definitely react.
If you meet on the street, ask the person to help you find the right street or house. If you portray extreme confusion, then the sympathizer may even offer to escort to the desired address. On the way, try to strike up a conversation in which let the person know that they really liked him. Praise his knowledge of the area, tell him how lucky you are to have met him. Just build a dialogue, not a monologue. Overly chatty people rarely make you want to keep talking.
Be open and friendly in conversation. The person should see that you are disposed towards him. Be natural. If you want to joke, joke. If you want to laugh, laugh. Don't wear a mask or try to convey someone's image. Perhaps a new acquaintance will like him, but it will always be very difficult for you to pretend. Therefore, it is better to be yourself.
If the dialogue develops by itself, this is a clear sign that the person is interested in you. This can be considered a small victory, most likely, he will not mind continuing the acquaintance.
If you like each other, then the person himself will hint to continue the acquaintance. If this does not happen, take the initiative into your own hands. Say that you enjoyed the conversation and would like to meet again. But be prepared for rejection. Not always the person you like has feelings similar to yours. Do not be discouraged, you also do not agree to every offer to meet. It’s not your fault for the refusal, it’s just not your person.
What not to talk about when meeting
At the beginning of the acquaintance, you do not need to talk about personal, health, reveal all your secrets. If a person on the first day of communication is devoted to all your secrets, he will become uninteresting to communicate further. Therefore, try to stick to neutral topics - about movies, music, weather. Leave the rest for the next dates.
