In life, men very often make many different proposals to women and do not always get positive answers to them. Some men react calmly to a girl's refusal, and some prefer to respond rudely.
Dating tactics
Since ancient times, a man has been a breadwinner, a conqueror. To seek a woman is a natural instinct. By nature, a man is loving. From a very young age, they begin to show themselves, show signs of attention to girls, give gifts, look for an approach to the person they like. Despite this similarity, everyone chooses their own paths for this. Some, at the sight of a beautiful lady, come up to her and offer to meet her directly, others invite her to have coffee or tea, and still others - to go somewhere. Problems begin if they hear a refusal in response. Some men take this as a blow to their pride. Someone, after refusal, generally ceases to take the initiative and get to know girls, someone perceives a soft refusal as a game and does not attach any importance to it, others react inadequately, may be rude to a woman or begin to humiliate her.
In any case, the reaction of a man directly depends on the behavior of women.
Reasons for rudeness
In modern society, people are used to taking care of only themselves. Few people care about other people's feelings. When faced with a woman with high self-esteem, the guy begins to literally beg for affection. Time passes, courtship begins to bore, his nerves are at the limit, and he has a surge of emotions. This is where reproaches, insults and rudeness begin.
The partner's wealth can also be the reason for this behavior. Not every man can endure a companion richer than himself. Trying to please, he does not find the means, is unable to fulfill all requests and is refused. The reaction is anger and rudeness.
It is not surprising, because the man wasted time and money nowhere.
The inability to get affection for yourself is another reason for rudeness that appears with the understanding that a lady preferred another man.
Sometimes it happens that the acquaintance was successful, signs of attention, flirting, the invitation was accepted, but the girl simply does not come to the meeting and does not pick up the phone. The man is indignant, because he was deceived. Yes, unfortunately, there are women who in this way simply indulge their pride. The rudeness of men in response to such an act can be forgiven.
Emotional problems are another reason for male abusive behavior. Some men just take revenge on all the girls in a row for past failures. And each next only aggravates the situation.
In any case, whatever the motives of the refusal, you should not react and respond with rudeness. You can review your behavior and change it. More experience, more chances of success. Perhaps another refusal is a good impetus to move to a new level.
