Many single girls dream of having an affair or even a serious relationship at the resort. Are these expectations justified?
A beautiful dress, fashionable haircut, flawless makeup, sparkle in the eyes. In this form, no woman will be left without male attention. In addition, on vacation, everything is conducive to acquaintances. Are you still undecided? Let's try to dispel your concerns!
"I will be considered frivolous." A candlelit dinner, a slow dance, a romantic walk under the moonlight is not a reason to consider you a criminal, unless you are married. The main thing is not to encourage the flirting of waiters in the restaurant, hotel staff, and do not try to hypnotize any single man who comes into your field of vision.
"This relationship has no future." Of course, you shouldn't go to the resort paradise in order to find a husband! Therefore, there is no need to make long-term plans. Just get the most out of communicating with the man you like. Perhaps your companion will be from the very city where you have long dreamed of visiting. Or he is a local and can show you the beauty hidden from the eyes of tourists. Or maybe a blue-eyed Briton, and you can finally put your knowledge of English into practice.
"Suddenly I will fall in love." The atmosphere of the resort is so intoxicating that you can drown in emotions with your head. But the cases when a resort acquaintance develops into a long-term relationship are more likely exceptions to the rule than the norm. A vacation romance was originally planned as a light flirtation that does not require any commitment. So do not ask for feelings that are not intended to give you, and do not offer what is not expected of you.
It has happened - the prospect of a dizzying romance has burst into your sedate rest! But now you are facing a new dilemma - how to behave in order not to get into an absurd situation?
Don't lose your head. No matter how gallant and decent-looking the suitor may be, you should not completely trust him. Do not leave valuables (credit cards, documents, keys) unattended. When you go on a date with a new companion, tell your friends where you are and with whom.
Don't pay your bill. Freebies at the resort are a dime a dozen, especially gigolo. It is not difficult to calculate them - such men prefer to dodge "sponsoring a banquet", citing a difficult financial situation. If a newly-minted gentleman asks for a loan of money, run from him wherever you look!
Don't confuse flirting with sex. After all, you dream of a romantic relationship, and not of becoming a casual acquaintance for the evening! Determine in advance for yourself how far you are ready to go, and do not cross the forbidden line.
Don't go overboard! Keeping an eye on it never hurts, but don't turn your vacation into a detective story - after all, your goal is to have a good rest and recharge with positive emotions!
With a wave of a handkerchief on the station platform, you leave behind your fleeting hobby. What's next? Surely you exchanged contacts and assured each other that you would resume communication upon arrival. Was it "out of courtesy" or does the resort craze have a future?
Maybe it's love. Only 7% of resort romances become serious ones. To do this, each of you should be at least free, and at most - in search of a serious relationship. It's no secret that many married men, once at a resort, suddenly become bachelors. And bachelors sometimes look for an opportunity to pass the time, and not at all find a life partner. But there are exceptions too!
Just a hobby. Doesn't he call or write? This is not a reason to fall into post-vacation depression. On the contrary, you have something to brag about! The rest was not in vain, adding a romantic plot to the piggy bank of your memories. Do not be sad about what has passed, smile at what has happened.
