If it happened that you lost your head from a married man, you should take into account certain points and not build unnecessary illusions in your romantic expectations. So there will be much less disappointment and resentment. What exactly should not be expected from a relationship with a married man?
The fact that the lover will certainly marry you. Only ten percent of adultery ends up leaving the wife and a new marriage. Much more often a man simply retreats when his mistress begins to "press" him about marriage.
Expensive gifts. If you are lucky and your lover is a wealthy and, equally important, generous man, then this item is not for you. But in most cases, you should not count on the fact that a married lover will shower you with rich gifts. He has a family, which is the main consumer of his resources. And you - what's left.
Joint holding of holidays and weekends. Alas, these days you will have to fill with other things, because your loved one must spend them with his family. Well, if he manages to break free to you for a couple of hours, you will have to be content with this.
Expanding the general circle of communication. Do not hope that a married lover will seek to introduce you into his social circle and get into yours. He does not need extra witnesses of your secret relationship at all. Of course, there are exceptions to the rule, for example: when a lover has “blown off the roof” and he is no longer afraid of anything, or when the relationship is stable and lasts for years.
Reciprocity of feelings. The harsh truth of life, confirmed by psychologists: women need to serve love, romance, and sex on the same platter, and men - preferably only sex. So have fun with the conversation, but don't get too excited about his romantic feelings. As soon as a married man feels a danger to his well-being, his lyrical mood will disappear overnight, and with it - and he himself.
Empathy and support at the moment you need. When you feel sad or need help, you will not be able to call your beloved man at any time of the day or night so as not to cause him trouble. Even if you write, it's not a fact that he will respond in time. The work and peace of mind of the family are more important to him than your whims and problems.
