Girls sometimes have relationships with married men. They do not want to build a serious relationship with them, but are simply looking for temporary entertainment. However, parting with a married lover is not so easy.
Instructions
Step 1
To end a "sick" relationship with a married man, try doing things gradually. Accept the thought that this person will never leave his family for you, which means that sooner or later you will still have to part with him. Get ready for the fact that you will have to change your life in the future, in which your lover will no longer have a place. Start seeing him less often, do not take the initiative, do not offer meetings and do not call just to talk to him and hear his voice. Gradually move away from the person who was so close to you. Over time, you will get rid of the fact that he was always there for you, and he will understand that you no longer want to have any relationship with him. A slow break can cause you less pain than a sharp break.
Step 2
After breaking up, don't get hung up on the fact that you just lost your love. Take up self-improvement, devote more time to your work and household chores. Do not sit at home in splendid isolation, try to surround yourself with people who will take care of you. Get ready for the fact that in the future you will meet a person who will only belong to you. You will create a full-fledged family with him and you will no longer be in second place, but in first.
Step 3
To avoid meeting this person, stop visiting places that you have once been together. Do not go for walks in the areas where he lives or works. Any accidental collision can cause you mental anguish and suffering.
Step 4
If your lover does not want to let you go from his life, you should tell him that you do not want to be just a lover, an outlet that helps him to be distracted. Explain that you are ready for a real family life and that you, too, would like to have a husband, children, and a home of your own. If a person does not consider you as their future official soul mate, most likely they will understand you and let you go.
Step 5
Some men begin to persecute their mistresses, do not allow them to live in peace. In this case, you can threaten the married lover by telling his legal wife about everything if he does not leave you alone. He is unlikely to want to spoil relations with his wife, because if he has not yet left her, then he has sincere feelings for her. After such a statement on your part, he will definitely stop interfering with your search for true mutual love, therefore, he will stop any attempts to return you.
