Every parent dreams of raising a child correctly, having an open, warm relationship with his child. How to Become Good Parents?
Instructions
Step 1
Hugs and affection from parents are important factors for the normal development of a child. The child needs to feel love and care from the parents as often as possible. When the parents hug the child, the baby feels safe. Children not deprived of parental affection, grow up self-confident, cheerful people.
Step 2
Try to smile at your children more often. They sense and adopt the bad mood of their parents, excitement and sadness. So pretending that everything will not work out well. Get away from problems, completely switch your attention to the most beloved thing in the world, your child. You should also not take out your bad mood on the child, even if later you ask for forgiveness and reassure the child, an unpleasant aftertaste will remain in his soul.
Step 3
Always be consistent in your actions and promises. If you are punishing a child, then choose a realistic method with a set time frame. You can't tell your child that you will never be allowed to watch TV, or permanently deprive him of sweets. Such impracticable threats do not work, because after a short period of time you yourself will forget about your promise and invite your child to watch a cartoon, or treat him to sweets. And no one will believe your threats next time, the significance of the punishment will lose its meaning.
Step 4
Always keep your promises. For a child to respect his parents, trust them, you must always follow his promise. Do not give the baby empty hopes, do not talk about what you are unsure of. If you have promised to go for a walk with your child, do so. You should not change plans at will, discretion, children will stop trusting you.
Step 5
Set a good example for your children in everything. Parents, this is the main role model. Children tend to be like their parents in everything, often not realizing that some of the habits of the parents and their behavior are wrong. Get rid of bad habits, do not use obscene expressions. Parents should always calmly communicate with each other with children, no tantrums and scandals. Children should perceive you as confident, calm, well-mannered people, they will definitely strive to become the same. All actions of parents, even the most pernicious, are perceived by children as a norm of behavior.
