An unexpected pregnancy makes big changes in life, raises a lot of doubts and conflicting thoughts. It is easier for girls to understand and accept this situation, but men should be careful about reporting pregnancy, especially if you are not sure about his reaction.
Instructions
Step 1
In family life, when the child was planned and waited for a long time, there is no need to think for a long time how to tell her husband about pregnancy. You can tell this good news in the evening, in private, by arranging a small romantic dinner with wine for him and juice for you. When the spouse asks the reason, you can report the upcoming addition to the family.
Step 2
But a completely different situation, when the pregnancy is sudden, and the guy's reaction is unpredictable. Much here depends on your relationship - how long you have been together, married or not, whether you have planned children, and many other factors. But the main thing you should understand is that you need to talk about pregnancy in private and in person. A phone call or SMS is not suitable for such important news, and after such a message there will be many questions, surprise, so you better be there.
Step 3
Contact the guy and offer to meet. Do not be dramatic with the phrase "We need to talk" or "There is a serious conversation." Although sometimes such a scary tactic helps to present an unexpected pregnancy in a winning way, if he expects something more terrifying.
Step 4
During a conversation, do not put off the topic of pregnancy for a long time. For guys, this information should be presented not with hints (“Would you like to become a dad?”), But with the direct phrase “I'm pregnant”. You can force him to ask a leading question, if during the meeting you look depressed and sad, he will ask about the reasons for your behavior. Then you will tell the reason by adding worry and excitement to your voice. In this case, he will react softer, he will calm you down and it will be easier for him to accept unexpected news.
Step 5
Be prepared for any reaction, especially if you want to inform your boyfriend about an unwanted pregnancy. Such a surprise can cause a fear of responsibility if the young man is young. Do not put pressure on him, let me think and give time to accept this news.
Step 6
It is better to prepare the guy in advance for this information. Two or three days before the main news, let him know about the delay, but don't talk about pregnancy. Look at his reaction, tell him that you will need to buy a test and find out exactly. From that moment on, his head will already have thoughts about a possible pregnancy, and your news will not be so shocking.
