Pregnancy is a happy time in a woman's life, but if it comes unexpectedly and at an early age, it can lead to family conflicts. Before informing her parents about this, the girl should carefully prepare for this conversation.
Instructions
Step 1
A conversation with parents about pregnancy most often becomes conflicting in two main situations: if the girl is underage, and if she becomes pregnant in an unmarried period of life. Of course, pregnancy with a minor girl is a very annoying situation, which is difficult to tell parents about. However, if the father of the unborn child is your beloved and agrees to marry and raise the child with you, this can be a strong argument in favor of the fact that everything is not so bad.
Step 2
Try talking to your parents along with your sweetheart and the father of the unborn child. Let the young man get to know your parents and try to inspire their confidence in himself, for example, by the fact that he has a stable income and, possibly, his own apartment where the future family can live. Say that you did not expect a similar situation, but at the same time you love each other and are ready to start a family. In this case, it is unlikely that the parents will be against the child or your future husband and will not reproach you. In this situation, it is important to maintain good relations with both the girl's parents and the young man's parents. They need to understand that the future family is likely to need financial and other assistance, especially in everything related to raising a child.
Step 3
If you do not know exactly who is the father of the unborn child, or he refused to start a family with you (which does not exempt him from criminal liability in case of seducing a minor or paying alimony upon reaching his majority), it is important to convince the parents that you are already quite independent and capable of raising a child alone. Encourage your parents to be prudent and ask them for help for the future happy life of your child.
Step 4
Situations often arise when parents try to insist on an abortion. You must convince them that this procedure is very dangerous for a woman and does not always have a favorable outcome. Give facts from medicine about how abortions work, especially if they have to be done late. If the parents are against the child, try telling them how you envision your future. Tell them that you really want a baby and just become a mom. At the same time, your parents will have a wonderful grandson, whom they can give love and care. Most likely, your relatives will be moved and gradually come into your position.
