Pregnancy is an important event in the life of a woman and her family. Regardless of whether it is long-awaited or accidental, it can be very difficult to tell your husband about the two strips on the dough. Consider the different situations of family life and actions in each of them.
Instructions
Step 1
Long-awaited pregnancy
You wanted this pregnancy, you tried to get pregnant for a long time, and you were even treated. Finally, the test showed two stripes, the happy moment has come. There is a desire to call her husband at work as soon as possible and tell him the news. However, if you have been trying to have a baby for a long time, you should not tell your husband until you are firmly convinced of the onset of pregnancy. Do some tests or get a blood test. This will take a maximum of one day. Share the happy news with your husband at home so that he can fully share your common joy. You don't have to call him at work and say it on the phone. Better to relive the moment together.
Step 2
The husband did not want to have children
Once you had a conversation with your husband, then you decided to postpone with the children. But time has passed since that moment. Perhaps his mind has changed. If you know that your spouse did not really want to have children, you should not report the news of pregnancy "head-on". First, talk to him: why did he not want it then, has his opinion changed on this score now. And after such a conversation, tell them that you are pregnant. Maybe you shouldn't be afraid of his reaction. Perhaps the husband really wants a baby, he just did not tell you about it.
If you find out that your husband's opinion about the children has not changed (he is still against it), it is still worth informing him about the pregnancy. But it is better to explain its occurrence by chance, even if it is not so. Under no circumstances tell your husband that you yourself have taken measures for the onset of pregnancy: you have stopped taking birth control pills, for example. In such a situation, it is better to lie: you forgot to take the pill on time or the drug misfired. Maybe over time, when you are firmly convinced that your husband is happy with the child growing in your family, you will tell him the truth. But not now.
Step 3
The husband is categorically against children and will force them to have an abortion
You are happy about your pregnancy. But you are afraid that your husband will not share this joy and will force you to have an abortion. This is probably one of the few situations where it is better to delay the conversation about pregnancy as long as possible. So you can refer to the long term and the impossibility of having an abortion because of this.
If you yourself want this child, then defend your right to have one. In this case, an abortion will not bring you anything but remorse. Your husband has no right to force you to terminate your pregnancy. With such different views on the birth of children in your family, it is not yet a fact that you and your husband will live your whole life together. Either you will agree, or you will part. In the second case, you will regret the abortion especially bitterly. So do what your heart tells you to do.
