Sometimes it happens that two loving hearts are in separation. Having found yourself in this difficult situation, it is not so easy to maintain a relationship at a distance. It is then that all the moments that you experienced together acquire value. Whether it's cooking together, shopping or any other event. All of them now give rise to a feeling of belonging to each other's life, do not give rest.
The hardest thing is to keep a relationship at a distance for those couples who are already used to living together and seeing each other every day. Since communication will now only occur by voice or text, problems such as lack of communication and understatement may arise. And although today there are many technologies, such as social networks or video calls, they will not provide the emotional closeness that people get through physical contact.
Another problem of long-distance relationships is the inability to find out all the disputes and vicissitudes to the end. People who are far from each other cannot, having quarreled, calmly reconcile and discuss the current situation. Someone in a couple may begin to ignore messages and calls, while the partner will not have the opportunity to come and understand the situation. Each quarrel in this case may be the last.
Loss of trust is another danger that lies in wait for people who have long-distance relationships. After all, there will be no way to check whether your loved one is cheating on you or not. Here everything will depend on the personal qualities of this or that person, how much he is susceptible to jealousy, etc.
Long-distance relationships are also difficult to maintain for those people who are experiencing material problems. After all, to see your soulmate, you need to spend a lot. Parcels, long distance calls and the like are also not cheap.
So how do you keep a long-distance relationship? First of all, both a man and a woman need to clearly imagine a joint future. You can make joint plans, discuss future meetings. Another component is romance. Of course, where is it without her. You can speak of your love in a million ways. You can send your loved one sweets, souvenirs, postcards, flowers, etc., paying for it all, for example, by electronic payment. You can make an appointment on Skype, or send a collection of your favorite songs to Vkontakte. Try to turn on your imagination and understand what your soul mate loves, how you can surprise her.
When you are far away, try to share what is happening in your life. This is a very important point and if you do not observe it, having met after a long separation, you will have nothing to talk about. Moreover, you can become completely strangers to each other. Try to keep in touch and do not spare warm words for your loved ones.
You shouldn't lead a monastic life. Develop yourself, devote time to interesting work, hobbies, friends. Try to turn the time of separation into what is called a time of growth. This will open up a lot of new horizons and opportunities, develop your personality. Start mastering drawing, yoga, or belly dancing.
Both lovers must believe that a long-distance relationship is not an obstacle and there is always a chance to quickly overcome kilometers. Don't give up if you are sure that this person is your true love. Only then will the distance become the wind, which will allow a large fire to flare up even more, and a small one will extinguish.
