The beauty is the object of admiration and worship of many men, the envy of most women and the pride of her constant partner. Paradoxical, but true: sometimes beautiful women are lonely for the reason that they are simply afraid.
In psychotherapy, there is even a special term venustraphobia (or caliginephobia), meaning an acute fear that begins to grip a man at the sight of a beautiful woman by his standards. This phobia will never allow a man to approach a beauty for the purpose of acquaintance. Why are men so afraid of beautiful women? Firstly, not all representatives of the stronger sex are one hundred percent confident in themselves. Most men, tormented by inferiority complexes, will think to themselves that they are not good enough to be with such an attractive lady instead and silently run away. In addition, looking at a beauty, the average man is almost completely sure that she already has a loved one. It is difficult for a man to imagine that such a beauty spends nights in a lonely bed. There are other reasons that make men beware of beautiful women. For example, in society there is an opinion that a beauty can only fall in love with a very wealthy young (or not very young) person. The more beautiful a woman's appearance, the higher the financial position of a man who claims to her should be - this is typical male thinking in the era of pure capitalism. Naturally, love is a feeling that cannot be calculated, weighed. In theory, a beauty can also fall in love with a beggar. But in modern realities, such cases are still quite rare, so there is a rational grain in such male fears. Also, some men are sure that most beauties (if not all) are spoiled and selfish creatures, accustomed from childhood to receive everything from life. … Still beautiful girls are often considered absolutely stupid, empty personalities. Unsuccessful romances with beauties, stories heard from friends, imposed stereotypes can serve as reasons for such opinions. But, nevertheless, men must fight their fears and prejudices. After all, the fear of beautiful women can prevent you from meeting your true beautiful love, and then you will have to live with a fake and ugly one. A beautiful woman not only scares men away, but the weaker sex is often wary of her. Free girls are scared to make friends with a beautiful and bright lady, because they are afraid to look faded and unpresentable against her background. They are tormented by a subconscious fear that a beautiful girlfriend will fall in love with all the men around. Girls who have permanent relationships are afraid of all the beauties who, in their opinion, can take away their beloved man, captivating with their appearance. In short, being a beautiful woman is not only a happy gift, but also an ordeal.
