It can be quite difficult for a man, especially a young one, to overcome insecurity and start caring for a girl. But you will have to overcome the embarrassment; without this, the object of adoration is unlikely to make contact.
Instructions
Step 1
You should not immediately push on the girl with a marriage proposal. It will just scare her away. To get started, just introduce yourself and start a conversation about topics that are always interesting to discuss. For example, about studying at the institute, new film distribution or musical genres. In the first conversation, try to find out what the lady of the heart especially likes.
Step 2
Take the girl's mobile phone number. This can be done under the pretext that you need to consult with her about something. Everyone loves to be recognized for his merits and listen to his opinion. The girl will be flattered that you perceive her as an expert in any field, and she is unlikely to refuse you.
Step 3
Call the girl the day after the conversation so that the memories of meeting you will not be erased from her memory. Ask if you are distracting her from important things. Start a conversation about your favorite topic of interest. You need to find out their list at the first communication. Listen more, let the girl develop her thought, do not interrupt. Be sure to thank you for your time and try to make an appointment to continue the engaging discussion.
Step 4
Pay special attention to your appearance when preparing for your first date. Girls, and not only girls, are always greeted by their clothes. And no matter how interesting person you turn out to be, dirty shoes and bad breath will scare people away from you even at the stage of greeting. Therefore, devote not five minutes to personal hygiene, but at least half an hour. Clean your clothes, tidy up your hair. Go to the meeting with a bouquet of flowers. This will let your beloved understand that the date is not friendly, you perceive her as a woman.
Step 5
Behave naturally, do not try to seem better than you really are. Do not invent non-existent business class cars and country houses. If you start dating a girl, you will not be able to hide your financial situation. And after such a deception, she is unlikely to want to continue communicating with you.
