Unfortunately, even the most ideal couples are not immune to separation. The reasons for this can be very different: the loss of mutual understanding, the intervention of another person, objective circumstances, the emergence of new interests or betrayal. Regardless of the reason, separation is often very painful, especially if one of the partners has betrayed. However, you should not despair. The traitor should be forgotten and a fresh start. This is not as difficult as it seems.
Many people, after breaking up, try to get rid of all things at once that remind of their ex. And they do it very right. Neither expensive jewelry nor beautiful photographs should be spared if they hurt. The rite of burning photographs, for example, in an ashtray, can bring incredible relief. Later, you can cry over a handful of ashes, as over a symbol of dead love. The ceremony itself will make the subconscious understand that the relationship is over, and it's time to start grieving for them. Any sorrow ends sooner or later, and with its completion the pain also goes away. But if you do not take into account the obvious gap and secretly cherish the thought of the return of the traitor, the pain will not allow you to live a normal life for a very long time.
Waiting for relief to come should be brightened up with useful leisure. It can be a hobby, work, travel, communication - anything that can fill the void formed after the departure of a once loved one. Psychologists often advise to plunge headlong into work, but sometimes the usual business is not able to distract from sad thoughts. In this case, all thoughts and efforts should be directed towards the realization of an old dream. For example, learn a foreign language or learn to drive a car. The main thing is that achieving the goal should bring really great pleasure.
The abandoned girl just needs to start working on her image. Not a single depression can even "come close" to a beautiful, self-confident lady. An impeccable hairstyle, fashionable manicure, an even tan, stylish makeup, smart clothes - all this will allow the girl to feel on her feet and attract the looks of men, which will surely bring her a lot of joy.
The next step can be the realization of the advantageousness of your new position: freedom provides many prospects for starting a new, possibly more interesting and serious relationship. The girl has only to imagine how many compliments, gifts and romantic dates await her ahead, and she will immediately, instead of feeling bitterness, feel indescribable gratitude towards the person who, fortunately, abandoned her.
A transformed, full of new hopes, interesting, mysterious girl simply will not waste time on boring memories of an unworthy person, because she will have a too busy schedule, in which there is hardly a place for sadness and grief.