It would seem that people who voluntarily marry and love each other should enjoy life. After all, there is nothing better than being next to a loved one. But more and more often living together causes more negativity than positive emotions.
Some couples get tired of each other and the routine of life after many years of married life, while others realize with horror that only a few months have passed since the wedding, and they no longer have the strength to endure each other. Why is this happening and what can be done in such a situation It is fair to say that women are more dissatisfied with men. In principle, this is understandable: the weaker sex is more sensitive, pedantic, demanding and unstable. Yes, it is because of mood swings and female inconstancy in the family that there are many conflicts. When irritation reaches its peak, you can break a lot of firewood and even destroy your family. To prevent this, you need to understand the reason for your irritability and act. To begin with, clearly formulate a list of what annoys you in your husband (these can be habits, qualities, character, actions and words) and honestly admit whether the husband became like that after the wedding or similar actions were characteristic of him during courtship. Agree that if you "turned a blind eye" at your future husband before the wedding, and he did not hide his shortcomings, then it is at least unfair to accuse him of anything. Next, analyze how important it is for you for your husband to act differently. Maybe you just need him to admit that he is wrong and appreciate more what you do for him? Or maybe now is a difficult period in your life, everything has piled on the fragile shoulders of a weak woman, and fatigue spills out with bouts of irritability? Try to focus on the positive. Write down what your husband does for you, and don't forget the little things. Always thank him for his concern and emphasize how dear he is to you. Praise will inspire and encourage a man to become even better for you, and there will be fewer and fewer reasons to be irritated. It is also possible that you are irritated only occasionally, and this is simply due to hormonal changes in the body. Accept this and share your feelings with your husband so that he can accommodate your needs. Remember that many family difficulties are resolved through open and honest communication.