An annoying girl is able to destroy the most beautiful and brightest feeling in a man. She constantly calls him, she offers to meet and can even watch after work … Do you recognize yourself?
A fine line
Relationship with a loved one must be constantly maintained. So that the love fire does not go out, in a man you should arouse interest and not let him relax. However, not everyone understands this in the same way. So it turns out that the lady begins to call her chosen one a hundred times a day, control his every step and gradually completely takes all the initiative into her own hands. How do you notice that fine line when you stop lovingly maintaining your beautiful romantic relationship and instead turn into a shrew who seeks to control every step of a man?
First, sit down and think about how often you take the initiative in your relationship. Ideally, a woman should not be more interested in communication than a man. That is, if your chosen one calls you once a week, and you are fifteen to him, the initiative is clearly not on his side. Try to show less interest in your relationship, no matter how difficult it may seem. Let the man be more proactive than you. Give him the opportunity to express himself!
Calm, only calm
Obsession often comes from distrust. Are you afraid of losing your boyfriend, or do you start to think that in your absence he is talking or meeting with something else? Start by learning to trust your man - after all, this is the key to a long and happy relationship. And your chosen one, if he feels that you no longer doubt him, will relax and begin to behave completely differently - you will see.
Do you need it
If in a relationship you feel that you are literally dragging everything on yourself, and the man only agrees sluggishly, think about it, perhaps this is not the relationship that you need? It happens, of course, when a woman every time subconsciously looks for a partner who will be easy to subjugate, but if you think about your importunity and worry about it, this is clearly not your option. What if you just need a strong man?
If you have been in a relationship for a long time and cherish them, but continue to want more, and the man is in no hurry, this can be a signal for concern. After all, when people are really interested in a joint future, they will show interest and try to maintain relationships at the same level of activity. Think about it. Maybe it's really time to stop being annoying, and just put a fat point in your one-sided relationship?
