It seems that the wedding march was played back recently, the young family was just beginning to get on their feet, and it was time to think about the child. When he is born, the husband automatically becomes the father and the wife becomes the mother.
Immediately, there is a risk of dissolution of the relationship between a man and a woman in the relationship between father and mother, which leads to a serious family crisis. A wife, still very recently tender, can turn into the embodiment of real motherhood, plunging into caring for a child, and a husband, overwhelmed with a sense of paternity, will disappear all day long at work, trying to feed the family.
There is an opinion that a child, by his appearance, turns the life of young spouses into a routine, that is, after the birth of a baby, festive life seems already otherworldly. The husband notices that the wife is busy only with the child, and the wife, in turn, sees that she has married a frivolous mattress, which did not even need a family. It seems that the affair is approaching a divorce. But do not rush so, because parental feelings can get along well with marital feelings, without even interfering with each other! What needs to be done for this?
First, organize your life in such a way that, in addition to caring for the child, you also have time to be alone. Find a good, reliable person whom you can trust from time to time to take care of your baby, while you yourself go to the theater, cinema, or just take a walk. The most important thing is to be a couple.
Secondly, it is better to establish in the family some kind of agreement on the division of roles in relation to the child. For example, choose someone who will get up at night and swing the baby. They should also clarify the pastime: will both parents constantly stay at home, or they can go to visit, even if they take turns.
Thirdly, it is worth learning how to give up some hobbies. It is possible that you will have to cut yourself off somewhere in your studies, in extra work or in communicating with friends. You need to try to make it feel like something natural to you, rather than something necessary to be sacrificed in the name of the child.
Fourth, in order to remain truly married, it is necessary to restore sexual relations.
If you agree on everything and comply with the contract, you will certainly succeed, and the family crisis will successfully disappear.
