So, two strips on the dough. This news always has a stunning effect, even if the pregnancy was planned. When a woman sees these stripes, a million thoughts immediately arise in her head. After all, now life will never be the same as before - you need to change your diet, habits, the whole daily routine. But there is one exciting thought: if the pregnancy was not planned, the most difficult task for the expectant mother is to notify the man from whom she is now expecting a baby. After all, there is so much fear and excitement: what will the partner answer, what will he think, whether this news will make him happy or upset.
Every woman wants her to see happiness in his eyes in response to the words: "Honey, we will have a child!" But men are very sensitive in this matter. Therefore, preparation before such news should be very careful. You need to choose the right moment. A happy future father should be rested, in a good mood, he should not be oppressed by any problems, so that he does not perceive this news as another problem that has fallen on him along with the rest of the troubles. A man should not be tired, hungry.
If your chosen one is not a very positive person in himself, then make him a surprise that will cheer him up, explaining this event with your love and a desire to please him. In this case, his new status in life will be associated with positive emotions. One more rule: it is necessary to notify a loved one about such news alone with him, preferably in a home, familiar atmosphere for him. He must learn about the position of his chosen one first, personally from her and nothing else!
And in conclusion, the newly-made mother should not reassure herself that her man will definitely shine with delight immediately after she tells him that there will now be three of them. It’s not that he’s not happy at all, doesn’t want it, or isn’t ready. It's a matter of male psychology. He definitely needs to digest the information received, think it over and put it on the shelves in his head. After all, he is also scared - now his life will change radically forever. Well, in the end, not all representatives of the stronger sex like to show their emotions - this is already more visible to the beloved woman. Therefore, you need to give a little time to your chosen one so that the family becomes even happier!
