When creating a family, we cannot even admit that after a while problems, quarrels, insults, mutual reproaches and accusations will begin, we cannot imagine that our beloved husband will cheat. Flying in the clouds, not accepting reality, one can be tormented and tormented by conjectures. But, there are a number of factors that indicate that your husband is cheating on you.
Instructions
Step 1
Analyze how much time your husband spends at work. Are you sure he's really at work? Or are there suspicions? A late meeting, a sudden business trip, a protracted quarterly report - these points need to be immediately addressed. Moreover, if shortly before that the spouse was not so busy at work.
Step 2
Take a closer look at his appearance. Has he looked younger? Wrinkles smoothed out and belly tightened? He began to carefully select wardrobe, cologne, changed his hairstyle? Alas, most likely it smacks of obvious betrayal, especially if the husband had not previously shown much interest in his appearance and did not dwell on it.
Step 3
Try to control his expenses. Money disappears into the unknown where? Perhaps he spends money on gifts for his passion, unless, of course, he is fond of playing in a casino or lottery club.
Step 4
See if your spouse is nervous when you ask him seemingly basic questions. If, to the question: “when you get home,” he begins to avert his eyes to the side and nervously fiddle with a button, answering: “dear, I’m likely to be late,” then the conclusion is obvious - he is hiding something from you.
Step 5
Think back to the last time you had an intimate relationship. You plunged into work, not noticing anything around, and only now do you realize that you had it a very long time ago? Maybe your husband constantly shrugs off your caresses, blaming everything on fatigue, headache, nervous tension? Maybe you are annoying him, and this annoyance is so obvious that it cannot be hidden?
Step 6
Listen to your feminine intuition, to your heart. It shouldn't deceive you. If you have conclusive evidence that your husband is cheating on you, do not chop off the shoulder. Try to understand, maybe forgive (depending on the situation). Think about the possibility that you yourself are to blame for the cheating on your spouse. Reflect on that in the future to prevent a similar situation.
