A strong marriage is the dream of many people. Unfortunately, over time, love is replaced by affection and habit, and passion dies out under the yoke of everyday life. Because of this, many men have a desire to experience a new love.
Most often, such desires arise during a midlife crisis, it often leads to male infidelity and the breakup of the strongest couples. A man at this stage of his life so wants to feel younger and more cheerful that he often begins to subconsciously look for a young lover who will make him feel like a boy again.
How to define cheating?
There are many signs that can help you figure out cheating. It is worth being wary when two or three such indicators appear, the only one much less often speaks of treason.
The easiest way to resolve your doubts about this is to call your husband for a frank conversation. During such a conversation, you need to keep yourself from hysterics, speak calmly and directly. Do not blame your husband from the very beginning.
Mood change is one of the controversial signs. Many men, after the appearance of a mistress, become gloomy, irritable and silent at home. Sometimes there is a feeling that a man can constantly think about something, and any of your words infuriate him, since they noticeably interfere with his concentration. In fact, this condition can be caused by problems at work, for the first time leave your husband alone (if there are no other signs of cheating), perhaps he is just solving a really difficult problem.
Don't cheat yourself by constantly discussing this exciting situation with your friends.
Delays "at work" and other signs
The absence of home and delays at work serve as a much clearer indication of a possible affair. For a mistress, you need to regularly carve out time from the usual daily routine. Of course, work can be a great cover. If the husband answers questions about the additional workload with something vague, the salary level does not change with a noticeable increase in the working day, and the spouse's phone is often disconnected, most likely, it is the mistress that is the problem. To allay fears, somehow "accidentally" find yourself at the exit from his work late in the evening around the time when he finishes his work on the changed schedule. Bring a friend with you to make the visit look believable. Draw conclusions based on the results of such intelligence. At least you will have information.
A sudden change in attitude towards you can be a sign of cheating. Men, tormented by a sense of guilt, very often begin to give flowers and gifts to their wife. Not so conscientious men, on the contrary, suddenly begin to notice all your flaws (in contrast to the new woman), constantly pointing out them.