Feelings of people are not always mutual. As practice shows, even after some time after marriage, a man can stop loving his soul mate.
How to win your husband's love?
If you begin to understand that your husband has stopped loving you and lives with you only out of habit, do not rush to panic. Understand that love is not asked. It must be achieved and conquered.
Start cultivating yourself. Remember how you were when your significant other first met you. Surely a lot of time has passed since then, and you have changed not only internally, but also externally. Get yourself in order, update your wardrobe, get a new fashionable haircut. Take a close look at your figure. Chances are, as you get older, you've put on a few extra pounds. Go on a diet, exercise, or start eating healthily. Eat less fried and salty foods, prefer boiled fish, meat, vegetables. Give up sweets, replace it with fresh fruit.
After you feel attractive again, try to awaken your husband's love. Joint pleasant memories will help you with this. Take him for a walk to the places you visited when you were young and in love. Review your common photos, find gifts that you gave each other a long time ago. Positive emotions can awaken old feelings in your spouse.
Surround your lover with care and attention. He must understand that next to him there is a loving and sincere person who is able to come to the rescue at any moment.
Remind your significant other of your feelings and say that he is still very dear to you.
How to get over the indifference of your husband?
If you can't return your spouse's love, you can act in two ways: tolerate cohabitation without feelings, or divorce.
Choosing the first option, you can comfort yourself with the thought that love is too deep a concept. It includes friendship, understanding, respect, habit and passion. Surely there is everything in your relationship except passion. Then bring her back. Try to bring something new into your intimate life, your husband will definitely appreciate it. Have romantic dinners that culminate in your revealing dance and stormy night.
If you understand that further life together does not make sense, put an end to it and file for divorce. Of course, parting is very difficult to survive, but believe that in the future you will definitely meet a man who will love you and make you happy.
