Unfortunately, not all families have a friendly, comfortable environment. Domestic violence, alas, is often a sad reality. Before the wedding, during a romantic period of courtship, a girl blinded by love does not see the shortcomings of her chosen one, and she simply brushes off all the warnings of relatives and girlfriends. And then, when family everyday life has already begun, suddenly the veil falls from the eyes, and instead of the best prince-knight in the world, a home tyrant appears.
Instructions
Step 1
Of course, physical abuse is always disgusting and cannot be justified. However, follow the wise rule: "Don't provoke!" It is not so difficult to understand exactly what words and actions can anger a husband to such an extent that he loses control over himself, forgetting about the rules of decency. Be smarter and more careful. Indeed, there are indeed such wives with whom even a saint would not get along.
Step 2
Immediately make it clear to your husband that you are ready to compromise, respect his demands and tastes, listen carefully to his wishes and claims, but do not tolerate humiliation of your dignity, especially assault. Try to say these words in a calm, confident tone. It might work. After all, most domestic tyrants, at heart, are fearful, insecure people. When they see fear in the eyes of the household, it only spurs them on, and calm confidence can confuse and puzzle.
Step 3
If your husband stubbornly does not get it, and the insults or beatings continue, consider divorce. Why do you need such a family life? Resolutely drive away stupid prejudices like: "If he hits, it means he loves." This is sheer nonsense. A loving man will not humiliate his wife, much less cause her physical suffering. Warn your husband that there is another similar case, and you will carry a divorce statement to the registry office. Sometimes it can shake a man well, make him pull himself together.
Step 4
Be sure to record the traces of beatings in emergency rooms and demand that the local police inspector take action. Alas, in many cases they prefer to dismiss the statements of beaten wives: they say, we do not want to get into the family business, the darlings scold - they just amuse themselves, we will take action, and then you will hit the thresholds, crying and asking to forgive your beloved. Be persistent, get the bully punished.
Step 5
Find out in advance the addresses and contact numbers of organizations helping women victims of domestic violence. They can be very useful to you. It also does not hurt to seek the advice of a qualified family lawyer.
