Unfortunately, people happen to die in the prime of life. This is a huge loss and grief for relatives. If your first wife is dead, you need to gain strength and move on with your life.
Instructions
Step 1
Grief experiences can be divided into four stages. At first, the person experiences shock. He may not notice those around him, not remember if he ate when he last slept. This stage lasts for several days. Then comes the phase of denial. The bereaved refuses to accept the fact that his wife is dead. A spouse may appear to a widower on the streets, come in a dream. Then comes the stage of grief. It usually lasts for six months or a year, after which the relief phase finally begins. Sometimes these four phases can happen to a person several times. No matter how bad you may be, remember that eventually your worries will pass, and the stage of relief will come.
Step 2
Let go of false guilt. Perhaps you do not find a place for yourself due to the fact that you did not send your spouse to the doctor earlier, did not meet her from the guests, and let her drive the car on that unfortunate day. However, it is not you who are to blame for the tragedy, but the circumstances that developed in such a way that your wife died. Accept this and allow yourself to admit that no one is to blame for the death of your beloved.
Step 3
As much as you love your lost wife, you will not become happy by remaining lonely and constantly yearning for her. However, you should not take a relationship with another girl as a cure for melancholy - so you will neither improve your personal life, nor drown out grief. It is better to start a new romantic relationship when you feel that you are ready to let a new woman into your heart.
Step 4
Tell your darling that your first wife has died. Of course, this should not be done on the first date, but if you feel that your relationship is dear to both of you, you should inform about such an important fact of your biography. The death of your spouse left an imprint on your character, perhaps you have some hidden fears about this. Together with an understanding woman next to you, you can overcome all the troubles and build a happy family again.
