The first phase of a relationship is most often bright and stormy, feelings are burning, passion is boiling! But over time, emotions subside, and the beloved begin to feel a lack of it. Quarrels, disagreements, misunderstandings - all this can accompany the life of two people who have been together for a long time. Happiness in love comes with time, it needs to be built. Reviving feelings, finding love behind mountains of negativity - that's what you need in such cases.
Instructions
Step 1
Trust in the future. By lowering your hands, you let the relationship with your loved one go off the rails and you no longer control their further direction. Remember all the happy moments with this person, the emotions that were once experienced at just one glance. Everyday life and habit change everything, turn feelings upside down, and now you are already annoyed seeing him. Try to break through the negative shell and fall in love with your partner again. Feelings pass, so they need to be warmed up. Add romance to your life, start walking in the evening, stay up late in coffee houses, carried away by conversations. Little joys will please both of you, and over time, the relationship will please you again.
Step 2
Become happy. Do not look for happiness in another person, it is exclusively within you. Trying to draw happiness out of another, you are like a parasite that strives to take advantage of other people's gifts. Believe in yourself, achieve harmony with yourself, enjoy life. Your attitude towards life will instantly affect your relationship. A happy person is confident in himself and his loved ones, jealousy and distrust will go away from the relationship.
Step 3
Make friends. Those couples who have managed to build a temple of friendship shine with happiness. After all, it is this temple that will accept everything - love and hate, affection and anger, understanding and distrust. Friendship in loving people is a guarantee of mutual understanding, which carries the entire burden of relationships. Understanding allows you to accept a person as he is. No fears, no reproaches, only kindness and tenderness. And all adversity will pass by itself, because friendship will overcome them.
Step 4
Don't get hung up on problems. Especially the problems of the past. Everyone makes mistakes, stumbles. But few know how to survive it and leave it behind. If you are feeling problems in the relationship at the moment, let go of the situation, do not play the little things in your head. After all, sometimes, having attached too much importance to something insignificant, we make irreparable mistakes.
