Any mother strives to instill in her the necessary skills of personal hygiene, housekeeping and culture of behavior during the upbringing of her daughter. But is it possible to become a best friend for your daughter, whom a growing child can entrust even the most intimate secrets to?
Instructions
Step 1
If you want to be the best friend for your daughter, be the closest person to her in terms of spiritual closeness. Behave with your daughter on an equal footing, do not seek to infringe on her interests for your own sake, but do not forget about yourself, your plans and goals for the welfare and happiness of your child. Try to literally find a compromise in everything in communication, which will be an acceptable solution for both the growing daughter and her mother. Treat your child as a person who has the right to express their opinions and their own views.
Step 2
In communicating with your daughter, do not show yourself as a wise person with life experience, be sure to admit your own mistakes, do not be afraid to apologize to the grown child if you are wrong. To become a friend of your daughter, treat her correctly from infancy, do not use lies when the girl needs to be persuaded to do something. Keep your promises, even if you give them not to a teenager, but to a kindergarten child, by doing this you will only arouse your daughter's respect for yourself, without dropping your authority in her eyes.
Step 3
When trying to become a friend for your daughter, do not criticize either her hobbies or closest friends, even if you do not like them at all. According to psychologists, if a teenager does not share your values, this is only a consequence of an oversight on the part of the parents. Even in a difficult situation, avoid categorical prohibitions, try to tell your daughter about her mistakes unobtrusively. As a rule, it is simply impossible to achieve complete obedience from your daughter, and even more trust in you, with all sorts of prohibitions, she will only move away and stop talking about her problems.
Step 4
It is better to maintain a trusting relationship with your daughter so that she herself talks about all the things that disturb her, shares her problems and listens to your words. Be aware of the most important events in the life of a growing girl so that you always have the opportunity to support her at the most difficult moment. If you want to get closer to your daughter, spend as much time with her as possible, walk together in the park every day, and in the evenings have tea drinking with a sincere conversation. Do not kill your daughter's trust in you, so as not to spoil anything, let everything she told remain between you.
