The statement that friendship between a man and a woman is impossible is only partly true. According to one social survey, it turned out that the majority of respondents believed that friendships are possible, but as long as they do not develop into something more. And then it becomes necessary to tell your best friend about your feelings. There are many ways to declare love, the main thing is to understand which one is right for you.
It is necessary
- - romantic dinner;
- - movie tickets;
- - a gift for a friend;
- - flowers;
- - air balloons
Instructions
Step 1
If you have been friends for a very long time, your friendly relations have many years of experience, it will be quite difficult to turn the tide. She probably perceives you as her best friend, that's all. Especially if she has a family. Another thing is if she is unhappy with her husband, then you should try.
Step 2
Act corny: ask her out on a date. But do it so that she understands that the conversation will go about something serious for you. You can in some way hint at its content, "prepare the ground." Say, for example, that you have long wanted to talk about something that worries you in your relationship, but did not dare that you can no longer postpone this conversation.
Step 3
If the friendship that has developed between you has not existed for very long, but she has already managed to enter the role of the best friend, perhaps the solution to your problem is not so difficult. It is likely that she herself expects this very recognition from you. Do it in an intimate, calm atmosphere so that no one bothers you. Be serious, do not stoop to theatrical gestures and facial expressions if you want her to take everything in accordance with your expectations.
Step 4
If she continues to stubbornly see you as a friend, even after all the hints from you, confess your feelings to her directly and openly. Say that you value your friendship very much, but understand that, alas, you cannot remain in this role any longer, as you are overwhelmed with a feeling of love.
Step 5
Consider your friend's personality traits. From some point of view, it will be even easier for you to confess your feelings to her than to an almost unfamiliar girl. Take advantage of the fact that you know her interests and passions. Perhaps she loves vampire movies like Twilight? Invite her to the cinema, and then arrange a romantic dinner in some restaurant. Give her a cute decoration, you can play the piano for her, if, of course, you have such talents, and confess your feelings. It is unlikely that the romantic nature can resist such recognition.
Step 6
Try to change so that she perceives you differently, looks at you differently. Let him see you as a man, and not just a vest for tears or a sweet boy who is always ready to listen to all her problems. Change your tactics. Do not be afraid to surprise her, because it is from this that interest in a person arises. Confess your love in an unusual way. Here you can choose any options for which you have enough imagination: a confession of roses on the asphalt under her window or a poster of the corresponding content decorated with balloons, a serenade, etc.
