You have a lot of friends with whom you are having fun, walking and planning a vacation. But sometimes we want a friendly shoulder that will listen to all our problems and will try to help. And everything is going well, you have such a friend. And this friend of the opposite sex. Time passes, and you realize that your friendly feelings have grown into a lighter feeling. How can you confess your love to your friend?
Think well
Many do not dare to sort out the relationship, so as not to spoil them in the future and not lose a friend. You can drop all doubts. If your friendship is real, it won't end anyway. But first, think about it and make sure you are ready for a new relationship. Are you just passionate about a friend? You are in love with him, but feelings are changeable and can melt over time. In this case, the relationship may actually end. Therefore, wait a bit, check your senses with time. If feelings do not fade away, go for it!
Act spontaneously
At the moment when he will least expect it, take it and confess to him. Just break away from business, turn to your friend and tell him that the feelings that you have for him are so strong that nothing can stop you, and you are even ready to accept his refusal. Say that you constantly think about him, it is difficult for you to part with him. Explain to him that you open your heart to him, and he has a choice: to reciprocate or refuse you. Yes, there is a risk, but there is also a chance that he will respond.
Plan your confession
Write your confession on paper, then invite your friend to some romantic place and read your letter to him. This will be a proposal to move on to the next stage of your relationship. Say something about your shared past, present, and how you see your future. Whichever way of recognition you choose, remember that at this moment the first sparks of the future flame of your love are lit.
Let time show
Try to spend more time with your friend than usual. For example, go to the movies with him more, to concerts, clubs, to any events. If possible, go on a joint trip. If you spend more time together, your chances of success will increase.
Experimental dating
Try asking your friend to just try dating? If you and he are both in a free search, and both like each other, why not take a chance? Agree that if this experiment does not work out or one of you finds another companion, you will be ready to return to the previous level of relationship.
Just do it
If you think he’s likely to reciprocate your feelings, try one of the romantic gestures others have already used.
He invited you to stay friends
No matter how hard it is from these words, you will have to come to terms with it. Try not to see him for a while and change your environment. A true friend is the highest value in life. So is it worth ruining such a friendship over a short romance? Continuing love is only possible if both partners love each other. If he loves one, there will be no happiness in the relationship.
