He has always been by your side, supported you in failures, encouraged you in your endeavors, rejoiced with you for your successes and helped you get through annoying disappointments. Maybe you know each other from school or went to college together. Or maybe you met in the company of mutual friends. He just became your best friend. Time goes by, and suddenly you realize that you have never had a closer person, that this “neighbor guy” has become much closer to you than all previous young people.
Instructions
Step 1
You must make the most important and most difficult choice: fight for your feelings or step on them, so as not to destroy the friendship. Unfortunately, the chain of development of emotions is valid only in one direction. You can turn a friendship into a romantic relationship, but it will be impossible to bring back the former trust and ease of communication.
Step 2
If you firmly decided that he should find out about your true feelings, then take action. You have more advantages than any other girl, because you perfectly know all the habits and interests of your friend. A close emotional bond of trust has already been established between you. You know that it is already easy and free for him to communicate with you. It remains only to turn his interest in the right direction, to make him look at you differently.
Step 3
Knowing about your new feelings and desires shouldn't come as too much of a surprise to your friend. Gradually prepare him for this, perhaps the most important confession in your life. Create an atmosphere of lightness, romance and ease. Go to the cinema, a nightclub, spend an evening alone watching an interesting movie.
Step 4
Surprise him with an unexpected change of image. You have always regarded him only as a friend, so most likely you never dressed up especially for him. Go for a walk not in sweatpants and old sneakers, but in your favorite skirt and beautiful sandals. Perhaps it is these changes that will make him see you as a girl.
Step 5
If you are not ready to immediately confess your feelings to him, then try to start from afar. Tell your mutual friend that you have an unexpected sympathy in this company. Of course, the expectation is that this mutual friend will certainly transfer the information received to the object of your sympathy. And then your best friend will wonder why you didn't tell him this secret. Most likely, he will quickly understand everything. And, perhaps, he will be the first to say that your feelings are mutual.
